Lost Concentration

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Registered: 06-20-2007
Lost Concentration
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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 6:23pm
Is it just me or does anybody else's BF goes flat and loses his concentration when he talks. Not like having a conversation, I mean like dirty talk.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 9:31pm
Hi Cece. My DH isn't great at dirty talk. He loves to hear it, but isn't well seasoned at saying it. I think it is distracting to both of us at times, but the more he tries it out, the more comfortable he becomes. I think if you encourage him, you'll find that he gets better over time. Dirty talk can be very revealing, so sometimes it takes a while to get comfortable going there.


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Registered: 04-13-2007
Sun, 07-15-2007 - 9:46pm

I thought you were talking about something else.

My bf is a wonderful guy, he's reallllly good at talking dirty lol, but once in a while outside the bedroom he just loses his personality. This really puzzled me one day a couple of months ago; he stopped by before work for a cup of coffee and he just had *no* personality. Perfectly nice and all, just so mild-mannered, which is not at all like him. It took me a while to realize that it was just that he hadn't eaten well or had any affection and had been working too hard.

So. I went over to his office around noon, invited him out to a little picnic in the parking lot, and gave him some good food and then a blowjob, and literally you could see the color come back into his cheeks. Literally food and sex got him back into a good place immediately. He walked back into his office like a totally different person.