Lost interest COMPLETELY

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2004
Lost interest COMPLETELY
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Fri, 11-19-2004 - 1:13pm

I've lost interest in sex so much. Even when my man mentions the mere suggestion of it puts me on the defensive. I just don't want to do it anymore. I don't know what's wrong with me. I feel like I want to burst out and cry about everything and anything, but I doubt it would help.

I do enjoy sex but in my mind it's a very insignificant priority and I just don't want to engage in it.

Anything I can do to ignite a spark of interest?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 1:37pm

Is there anything else you can tell us?


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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2004
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 2:23pm

First you have to figure out WHY you've lost interest. As Tish said, there are all kinds of things that can kill your libido. Relationship problems, physical problems, mental/emotional problems. It doesn't just stop for no reason.

Have you had a good physical recently? Hormone imbalances can do it. Have your horomones checked. Are you on any kind of medications?

How are things outside the bedroom? Problems? That will carry over into the bedroom. What kind of lover is he? Does he leave you frustrated and/or unfulfilled?

Before you can fix it, you have to figure out what broke it!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2004
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 4:27pm

I'm agreeing with Tish and GTB. It's important to find out why your libido has gone.

Medications, physical problems and emotional problems can all play a big part.

However, when my libido goes, it's a sure sign that the relationship is not well. It doesn't necessarily reflect that the two of you are fighting constantly....but things such as growing apart will also do it. In short, I've found that my libido is a barometer of the health of my relationship.

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