lots of blood while fondling

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Registered: 09-06-2006
lots of blood while fondling
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Wed, 09-06-2006 - 10:53pm
well you see , the situation is like thus : for 2 months now , i've been engaging in manual stimulation , or penetration , roughly stated , with my boyfriend. you see , the problem is , there's always a lot of bloody flowing out and covering his fingers whenever we fondle each other , for almost everytime except for the first one. when it first happened i thought " hey , maybe i broke my hymen that's why the blood " but when it happened the second and thrid time , i got very worried . is he prodding on the wrong thing inside , maybe poking at something he shouldn't ? he doesn't have very long fingernails , does it even matter actually ? i'm worried if he's actually causing serious damage inside , if it will affect anything in the future ? so far , i'm not experiencing any discomfort whatsoever but is there any precaution i must take ? i've stop making out with him for the time being but i really do wish to continue , without this bothering me though . i need advice and help !! do reply !! thank you ..
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Thu, 09-07-2006 - 1:30am

"Every" time? How often has that been? If you had a hymen, and if it tore, it would have only been a few drops, and it wouldn't happen every time.

Are his hands rough, or his nails raggedy? He might be too rough, and he could be scratching your vagina. Vaginal tissue is very tender, like the inside of your mouth.

If it continues, then you need to see your doctor to find out what's going on. It's not normal to bleed every time from manual penetration.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 09-07-2006 - 7:29am

It has happened every time you've fooled around and that should not happen.


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Registered: 09-06-2006
Sun, 09-10-2006 - 12:42am
lets say i'm too shy to actually see a doctor , is there anyway i can perform a DIY checkup or get professional help through , because i'm barely into my 19 and asking such of me would be a little too awkward from where i came from ( singapore )
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Sun, 09-10-2006 - 2:10am
Sorry, but there's no way you can do it yourself. You're not a doctor, and no one can tell you from a description what is going on...it has to be LOOKED at. By the time you're 19 you should start getting a physical exam every year anyway....and most definitely when you're sexually active. If you bleed a lot whenever you're touched, something could be wrong, and you need to get over being shy, and see a doctor. Doctors are there to care for your health, not judge your morals....they don't care WHAT you do but they must know to treat you properly.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 09-10-2006 - 8:27am
No, you are not a doctor, you don't know what problems can cause it.

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