Loud sex...

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Registered: 01-17-2007
Loud sex...
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Tue, 07-03-2007 - 7:28pm

So, I have this very embarrasing question about loud sex... the sex that only happens when you're both really drunk...at least for me and my boyfriend.

I just moved into a new apartment and just met my new neighbor... the others i may never meet...

How do you confront, or what do you say, or how do you react, to your seeming really cool neighbor who you'd like to get to know, but cant even think about seeing again because you're so embarrassed about the, well, "other night" that they probably heard... I feel so bad!

Has anyone else been there before??
Would it be ok to say it was my friends and say sorry about that?

ahhh...dont worry this doesnt happen alot, this is probably the 3rd time i know we've been loud and possible heard.

HELP!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: sweetsurf
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 7:35pm
You're probably both better off pretending that it never happened.

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In reply to: sweetsurf
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 7:45pm

There's no reason to mention anything about it, if they heard it, so what who cares.

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Registered: 06-28-2007
In reply to: sweetsurf
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 7:48pm
I know in my case I am very vocal. I like to talk and on one occasion a neighbor of mine told me he heard me and got the biggest thrill of his life. I was embarrassed so now I make sure that I have music on or the TV because when I'm coming I can get very loud:)

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: sweetsurf
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 8:24pm
You don't have to say anything. Who cares what they think..



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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: sweetsurf
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 10:21pm
I think you shouldn't say anything....She'll just think you guys have a HOT sex life that's all!! :-)
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: sweetsurf
Wed, 07-04-2007 - 8:24am

Welcome to the board sweetsurf.

I think your neighbor also has sex, so I wouldn't worry about what he/she heard. Living in close quarters, people hear things. I wouldn't bring it up. If they smiled at me, I would just smile back.

Also, if you are self-conscious about the noise, make sure you have music or something else to help muffle the sound.



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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: sweetsurf
Wed, 07-04-2007 - 8:28am

Welcome to the board kissintherain, and thanks for joining in.


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