Love/Body turn ons/turn offs

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Love/Body turn ons/turn offs
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Fri, 11-26-2004 - 11:41am
A man in a recent post mentioned that he found *d* cup breasts to be a turn off. My first thought was what if a man's SO had a b or c and gained weight or during preganancy became a *d* cup? What then? Or what if a woman lost her breasts all together to cancer? All of this has me wondering, do our body parts hold the ability to turn our partner on or off? What if I held the *penis* to the same standard--if it lost it's ability to erect, should I leave or stop having sex with my partner because the sight of it turns me off?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 11-26-2004 - 1:06pm
I don't think physical appearance matters to most men or women in a relationship.

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Registered: 06-08-2004
Sat, 11-27-2004 - 11:47am
I understand what you mean. Many people seem to have these "rigid" fantasies in their heads about preferences and perfection. Everything from exact sizes of particular body parts to various shades of this or that. I find that mindset to be particularly immature. What is most attractive to a person can be a very fluid and changeable thing, especially when loving a real person and being attracted to that real person has a LOT more significance in their lives than fantasy images.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 11-27-2004 - 1:30pm
I agree with his_capn_crunch. His view of the woman he loves body is VERY fluid and adjusts with the passing of time. In a healthy relationship, the man loves his wife the same, if not even more at 70 as he did at 20.(Speaking from actual experience)!!
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Registered: 11-17-2004
Sun, 11-28-2004 - 6:33pm
When it comes to guys, I've always been slightly shallow about them...never liked guys with light colored hair, and if they didn't have nice looking bodies (I'm not talking rock hard abs or anything but I don't like it soft around the middle, and not defined pecs, etc.) well, I wouldn't give them a second thought.
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