Lowering a sex drive?
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Lowering a sex drive?
| Tue, 08-16-2005 - 4:27pm |
I have a very high sex drive and my Husband doesn't in fact I will have to go almost a month with out it and that it way too long for me (everyday is perfect) but I want to try and find a way to lower my sex drive so that it will complement his not annoy him. does anyone have any suggestions?

Since you said you'll have to wait a month now, I'm taking it that your husband only wants sex once a month?
"Libido" is part hormones, and part mental. You can't do anything about the hormones, and you wouldn't WANT to. You CAN try to stop thinking about it so much.
Has he had a good physical including hormone tests? Maybe he should have one done. It could be a hormone imbalance on his part.
Also, as was suggested, communication about your feelings and needs......and finding a compromise that you can both live with. Once a month isn't much.......he should be able to up that to at least once a week, IF he cares about your feelings. Make it a Saturday nite event! At least you'll have something to look forward to!
As for him being annoyed.......does he think it's fair that YOU are also annoyed for a month at a time?