When there isn't natural lubrication available (or that lubrication is limited), then adding lubrication is a good idea. Without proper lubrication, friction caused by sexual activity can become uncomfortable and painful for either partner.
When choosing the right lube for you, it depends on how it will be used. Some lubricants can not be used with latex condoms or certain sex toys. Some people are also sensitive to different lubes. Water based lubes are safe with everything, but may not last as long or give the feel you enjoy.
You may want to have several different lubes on hand.
- They make great flavored lubes to use during oral, but they aren't the best choice for intercourse. Some of the flavors have sugars in them, which can lead to yeast infections in women.
- Waterbased lubes can't be used in the water. There are silicone based lubes that require soap and water to wash off -- those are great for sexual activity in water.
- Some lubes have warming or tingling affects. These are the ones I read about many people being sensitive too, but if you and your partner are not, they are very nice for massage and foreplay activities.
- Petroleum based lubes are thicker and last longer. They're good to use for anal sex; however, they damage condoms and the materials that many sex toys are made of. Some people are also sensitive to the chemicals in these lubes.
When there isn't natural lubrication available (or that lubrication is limited), then adding lubrication is a good idea. Without proper lubrication, friction caused by sexual activity can become uncomfortable and painful for either partner.
When choosing the right lube for you, it depends on how it will be used. Some lubricants can not be used with latex condoms or certain sex toys. Some people are also sensitive to different lubes. Water based lubes are safe with everything, but may not last as long or give the feel you enjoy.
You may want to have several different lubes on hand.
- They make great flavored lubes to use during oral, but they aren't the best choice for intercourse. Some of the flavors have sugars in them, which can lead to yeast infections in women.
- Waterbased lubes can't be used in the water. There are silicone based lubes that require soap and water to wash off -- those are great for sexual activity in water.
- Some lubes have warming or tingling affects. These are the ones I read about many people being sensitive too, but if you and your partner are not, they are very nice for massage and foreplay activities.
- Petroleum based lubes are thicker and last longer. They're good to use for anal sex; however, they damage condoms and the materials that many sex toys are made of. Some people are also sensitive to the chemicals in these lubes.
Misty gave you a great run-down.
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