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| Wed, 04-18-2007 - 5:09pm |
Hello
I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 yrs and everytime we want to have sex I lubricate, when it comes for the action part I'm all dried up and it pisses me off. I was with somebody else and I lubricate LIKE CRAZY. I DO THE SAME THINGS WITH MY BOYFRIEND AND BETTER AND IT DOESN'T WORK. PLEASE HELP!! WHAT CAN I DO
I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 yrs and everytime we want to have sex I lubricate, when it comes for the action part I'm all dried up and it pisses me off. I was with somebody else and I lubricate LIKE CRAZY. I DO THE SAME THINGS WITH MY BOYFRIEND AND BETTER AND IT DOESN'T WORK. PLEASE HELP!! WHAT CAN I DO

Thank you
Both caffeine and alcohol can cause problems with dryness. Also, I'm not sure of your age, but menopausal symptoms can begin as many as 6 years before menopause -- and menopause can cause big problems with dryness.
Here's what an article on iVillage lists as negative effects of caffeine:
In high doses, caffeine can cause:
* Rapid heartbeat
* Irritability
* Insomnia
* Anxiety and nervousness
* Dehydration from diuresis (that irksome need to pee in large quantities)
* Indigestion
* Lack of concentration
* Muscle twitching
Here's a link to the complete article:
Are You a Caffeine Addict?
http://health.ivillage.com/eating/enutritional/0,,1br2,00.html
Also, a link about menopause (and a management plan):
Manage Menopause Action Plan
http://health.ivillage.com/gynomenopause/menopausesymptoms/0,,nxlp,00.html
And, I know this might sound gross, but if you don't want to have to get the lube, spit works wonders. My DH doesn't hesitate to use it, so I leave that up to him ;-)