make yourself sexier

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make yourself sexier
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Fri, 07-02-2004 - 12:39pm
we often hear all of the things that women do to feel sexy to be sexier to the opposite sex. what are some things that men do to feel sexy and to be sexier to the opposite sex?
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Fri, 07-02-2004 - 12:48pm
Shower? ROFL J/K My DH will wear the clothes he knows I like, and wear the scented oil he knows I like. I know this isn't something he does on purpose for me, bt I LOVE watching him fix stuff LOL. Something very hot about a man working ;o)

Leticia

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Registered: 05-21-2004
Fri, 07-02-2004 - 3:34pm
for me it can be anything from the sweet to the dirty, but usually they're all such simple things. for example...on a night when my SO was coming over for dinner, he knew i'd spent the day 'spring cleaning' and arrived with not only the obligitory wine but a big bouquet of gladiolas...and he's SUCH not a flower buyer (and i don't really ever care about receiving them either!!) but he said 'fresh clean flowers for a fresh clean apartment'...awww, made me think he was thinking about me all day.

or he'll send a txt message with a short one line about what he's gonna do to me later...everytime it gets me wet!! on those days, i want to answer the door and practically be taken right on the front porch!!

i guess it all comes down to knowing i'm being thought about, being desired, and that he can't wait to be near me!! oh and the occasional surprise back massage (gentle removing of clothes then spend very deliberate amounts of time rubbing my back, legs, feet, face, tush), is always good to throw in especially after a long week. seeing him be that attentive to my body when we could be gettin it on makes me want him EVEN MORE!




Edited 7/2/2004 3:35 pm ET ET by kcbelle

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-02-2004 - 6:33pm
I asked my DH this question. He said to be clean, neat and smell good, that's important to women. Plus, to work out regularly so that he feels confident in his physical appearance. Confidence shows.
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Sat, 07-03-2004 - 3:34am
At a basic level it's probably not much different than what women do. We want to look, feel, smell and sound good.

I like to be clean and showered. Wear clothes that are neat, tidy and reasonably fashionable - that includes underwear if I think it'll be seen! Exactly what I wear depends on the situation. Good clean shoes.

I make sure that I smell good - not bad; the aftershave and deodourant gets put on.

I make sure that there isn't hair in the wrong places. The hair that is in the right places gets a haircut, groomed and tweaked to perfection. That means a shave and trimming bits here and there, shampoo and hair products.

Rough elbow skin gets some moisturiser on those really special nights. Accessories like watches and belts etc. should be considered.

Hopefully if I'm feeling good I've had some exercise and feel OK about my physical appearance and level of fitness. Mentally, hopefully I'm not tired and I feel happy and good and confident.

Anything else depends on the situation. eg. buying flowers might be appropriate. Organising the evening or date might be appropriate and make me feel good if I feel that something good is lined up.