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| Tue, 10-26-2004 - 6:43am |
How did everyone felt when they were made love to for the first time? With me, it was by far the best experience I ever felt. I was never made love to before being with my current boyfriend... but with his situation of being in the Army and me waiting until I was really in love with me, it made the wait worth wild! :) I even forget that I wasn't a technical non-virgin because to me, he's really, truly was my first (and hopefully my last).
So feel free to share your stories. Don't get into details though (kinda sacred between you and your DB/DH) but express how you felt the first time!
Bee

Because of this technicality, I'm not sure what you are asking. Is "made love to for the first time" a euphamism for first time intercourse....or do you mean the first time that we had intercourse with some type of spiritual connection?
Anyway, if it's the former, it was very disappointing. In the back seat of my b/f's car - he wasn't keen to do it, and I had kinda pushed him into it. We had no contraception and so used 'withdrawl' method. Not surprisingly, he lasted about 3 strokes before he pulled out. I felt quite grubby and sad afterwards.
If it's the latter, I can't help you - I've never "made love" with someone. I'm not a very spiritual person LOL
As for answering your question, I was refering to the later! And that happened when I first made love to my current boyfriend. The whole experience left me in tears... of joy of course! But funny, considering that I only had less than a handful of partners in my life and he was the lucky one.
But as for the former, technically... my first time was very uncomfortable. I was helping my boyfriend with his college paper (since I was good with writing papers) and one thing led to the other. What really made it uncomfty is that he was very well-endowed and didn't know what he was doing. It took us 15 minutes to finally get more than 3" in because it kept on slipping out. That was the only time we had sex. I was crying for days because it hurt that much.
To the O/P, that's a wonderful experience for you. Congratulations.
<3cari
As far as making love, the biggest connection I've felt with someone so far is with my current SO. Probably because we held off from sex for over a month, which I've never done in the past. But I think we both felt we didn't want to rush into things and risk screwing up a good thing. It was strange how in tune with eachother we were the 1st time, there was no shyness or akwardness that there usually tends to be, and I loved the eye contact during.