making eye contact during oral

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making eye contact during oral
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 11:44am
oh my gosh!! I did something simple the other night that I had never done before and didn't realize that it would cause such a reaction!

my bf was standing, leaned against the wall, and I was kneeling in front of him (which is nothing uncommon) but I looked up at him and made eye contact... the reaction I got was extremely good...

Guys (or anyone) what is it about eye contact that makes it so much better?

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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 12:01pm
Hi Mystic. Well, it DOESN'T necessarily make oral better for every guy. I've heard some men describe it as creepy-looking because the woman looks cross-eyed. But as long as it works for YOUR guy, that's all that matters.


Edited 6/23/2004 12:09 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 12:24pm
My guy also likes that, try giving him the "its so big dont hurt me look" there so simple!
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 1:27pm
Making eye contact like that is seductive and titillating to some men so it can make the whole experience more exciting and erotic, yes. Have fun with it!
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 1:48pm
>>I've heard some men describe it as creepy-looking because the woman looks cross-eyed.<<

That's so funny, I've never heard that. If she were looking at his pubic hair or something close to her face I could see that happening, but looking at the guy's face? It's so far away, how could someone possibly go cross eyed looking into her partner's eyes?

Leticia

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 1:51pm
DH likes it because it adds to the naughtiness for him. I have heard men say that it shows sexual confidence, and even a bit of aggressiveness.

Leticia

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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 2:07pm
Hee-hee. Well, speak for yourself. I love giving oral, but so much that it makes me cross eyed! lol.
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 3:55pm
Uh, no, I wasn't speaking for myself since I don't receive fellatio! I was repeating what male friends have told me. Not ALL men love having a woman make eye contact with her mouth full.


Edited 6/23/2004 4:06 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 4:03pm
Only one male friend of my DH's described his SO as looking cross-eyed, but the other agreed and said it just looks weird to him. When I ask for explanations, they both just said that they preferred the eyes closed.
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 4:32pm
I haven't really ever noticed my girl making eye contact, guess it wasn't a big deal if she did or not.

What she does that DOES do drive me crazy, is taking a little break while licking, and telling me how badly she wants to make me cum in her mouth and taste my cum. I had a previous lover that would stop right as I was getting off and it drove me nuts (not as a good thing), and I became very conflicted about finishing that way. It's such an intimate thing to feel and especially to know she truly wants it too, I enjoy it so very much.

I know I have seen women making eye contact in movies, both to men and women, and it does look strange to me, but I wonder if some guys enjoy it for that reason ... who knows?

My two cents worth,

Michael

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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 4:33pm
katman - do you also go by "mama2mytwosons"?

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