making eye contact during oral

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Registered: 02-13-2004
making eye contact during oral
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 11:44am
oh my gosh!! I did something simple the other night that I had never done before and didn't realize that it would cause such a reaction!

my bf was standing, leaned against the wall, and I was kneeling in front of him (which is nothing uncommon) but I looked up at him and made eye contact... the reaction I got was extremely good...

Guys (or anyone) what is it about eye contact that makes it so much better?

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 4:36pm
I swear I'm going to do that for my husband one of these days. He would LOVE to hear those words.
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 4:45pm
Nope.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 5:16pm
The reason I ask is because I post on another board and you and her seem and sound exactly alike.
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Registered: 04-19-2003
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 5:19pm
I HATE eye contact during any sexual play.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 5:29pm
As far as I know, each member can have only one board name unless you falsify your info.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 6:02pm
Yes, lots of people have two or three handles from what I hear from them. Since being on this board, I've gotten so many e-mails from people telling me this - how they are on such and such a board under a different name and to try posting on the other boards for help in certain situations. So, just curious.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 6:27pm
I have had ex-boyfriends who felt that way too! They get uncomfortable or close their eyes right away, hee!

It's not that big of a deal for me actually. I don't even realize when I'm doing it or not. Sometimes my husband will tell me to look at him, but not a big deal.

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 7:50pm
Is it like having one of those paintings whose eyes follow you around the room?

Leticia

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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 8:11pm
Not me, this is my one and only.
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Registered: 06-08-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 8:43pm
Wow, you learn something new every day....it never occurred to me that many people would be uncomfortable or not like eye contact during oral. Even part of the time. Although DH and I don't stare at each other the whole time, we always make eye contact during either fellatio or cunnilingus (unless it's very dark or the position doesn't allow for it).

It's the same with intercourse. There is something very intense about looking directly at each other, especially during orgasm. I read once that very few couples do that. I'm guessing most people are uncomfortable with the intensity level/intimacy level that comes with really looking at each other in those moments.