making eye contact during oral

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Registered: 02-13-2004
making eye contact during oral
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 11:44am
oh my gosh!! I did something simple the other night that I had never done before and didn't realize that it would cause such a reaction!

my bf was standing, leaned against the wall, and I was kneeling in front of him (which is nothing uncommon) but I looked up at him and made eye contact... the reaction I got was extremely good...

Guys (or anyone) what is it about eye contact that makes it so much better?

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 8:45pm
Rent a good porn flick and see how the girls do it. It's very sexy to a lot of men.
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 8:52pm
ROFL. I agree, both partners need to feel very comfortable with one another and yes, it's not like your "staring" at them! LOL Just a little eye contact.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 10:18pm
No need to. Since you obviously haven't been following what I have said, I hadn't said anything about men not enjoying it. The only thing I said was that I had never heard of women going cross eyed or looking cross eyed.

Leticia

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 11:16pm
Tiana,

Back closer to the subject ... I really hope to hear how that works for you two.

It's all so much mental stuff, I wish she was that enthusiastic more often, lol.

I love your attitude btw ... your guy is a very lucky man!!!

Michael


Edited 6/23/2004 11:17 pm ET ET by sexyiq

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Thu, 06-24-2004 - 2:20am
I love eye contact. It exudes sexual confidence and is almost as if she is subconciously saying "I know exactly what I am doing and what I'm doing to you and I enjoy it and feel comfortable with it and enjoy seeing the expression on your face as I do it to you".
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Registered: 07-19-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 10:26am
I just love these bords, I have been cracking up! How many people can you discuse this kind of stuff with. Yes eye contact is great but can you recite the pleg of aligance with your mouth full?
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 12:13pm
It sounded like you were making fun of it actually. No biggie.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 12:25pm
Uh No, just making a joke to Yasmin. If you follow more closely, maybe you would have gotten the joke.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 12:53pm
I got it, just sounded like you were making fun of it, that's all.
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Registered: 06-08-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 2:25pm
"I love eye contact. It exudes sexual confidence and is almost as if she is subconciously saying "I know exactly what I am doing and what I'm doing to you and I enjoy it and feel comfortable with it and enjoy seeing the expression on your face as I do it to you".

You said it perfectly! That's exactly what I'm thinking when I go down on DH. In fact, it's funny, I was thinking about this thread topic last night while I was doing it. I realized that I HAD to watch him at least from time to time to know how he liked each different thing I was doing, and the intensity of it. He LOVES coming out of his nirvana long enough to catch me looking at him. It even makes it more intense for him. It makes it more intense (and even more of a turn-on) for me, too.