making eye contact during oral

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Registered: 02-13-2004
making eye contact during oral
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 11:44am
oh my gosh!! I did something simple the other night that I had never done before and didn't realize that it would cause such a reaction!

my bf was standing, leaned against the wall, and I was kneeling in front of him (which is nothing uncommon) but I looked up at him and made eye contact... the reaction I got was extremely good...

Guys (or anyone) what is it about eye contact that makes it so much better?

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Registered: 02-13-2004
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 2:31pm
Never realized that there'd be so many opinions to it!! :-)
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 3:05pm
I hope one of you would stop, don't even answer this ... it's a great thread and I'd like to hear more of it ...

BTW, My girl and I don't always make eye contact but I know she loves to watch me getting off, and this past weekend while I was fingering her and licking/sucking/nibbling her clit, I loved watching her abs spasm out of control while hearing her both scream out in pleasure and strain in the intensity ... Just a little oral freak doing his best ;)

Gotta love it!

Michael

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Registered: 10-09-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 3:27pm
Did anyone see Robin Williams's last HBO special from NYC? The last skit he does is him mimicing giving his wife oral sex. I laughed so hard, my sides hurt.

The eyes are the windows of the soul...even during sex. My DH has great bedroom eyes and I love whenever they meet with mine during any kind of sex. I can read a lot of what he's thinking by them. I like to give him a she-devil expression while performing oral, and even a little wink. I love any eye-contact during sex. I think that's what makes Jack Nicolson so popular...imagine those devilish eyes looking up at you during oral. ;-)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 06-25-2004 - 12:50pm
I think we've already established that a quick glance during oral, to add intimacy and to check on your progress, is great, for most people. But when there's a STARE that becomes too intense, well, I don't know too many people who enjoy that.

And some men do find that a partner looking up at them, with a full mouth, is strange or weird-looking. To each his own though, right?

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Fri, 06-25-2004 - 3:21pm
I completely agree 110%. As a matter of fact, before JT and I moved in together, we would take nude/naughty pictures of each other for our own pleasures since the other wasn't readily available. ;) Well, one night he asked if he could take a picture of me while giving him oral. I figured, what the hay...thinking it was because he would see the picture and could imagine the sensation given to him while doing that better. After reading this thread, I asked him why he wanted the picture - if it was the reason I thought or for some other reason. He coyly said he loves the way I look when I am looking up at him. He said almost the exact words we three think about when we do it to them, switched around though so I was thinking those things not him. :)
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