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Registered: 08-03-2007
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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 1:56pm
Would you hire an escort - either an escort-escort or a escort-gigolo?
If you have, what was it like?
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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: biggino
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 3:21pm

Nope, wouldn't pay for a escort date or for sex.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
In reply to: biggino
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 10:30pm
Hmmmm, nope but would be interested in signing up to be one,
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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: biggino
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 10:45pm

Hi and welcome biggino. Please, please fill out your profile so we can know a little something about you. Thanks!

No, I have never hired an escort nor probably ever will.



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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: biggino
Sat, 08-04-2007 - 12:27pm

If you are referring to hiring one to have sex with (and not actually escort ;-), then no, I would not.

The reason is because I would not want someone to have sex with me because I am paying them to, I would want someone to have sex with me of their own free will--or because they desire me sexually.

Logically, this is one of the biggest differences between the sexes (even if sex with a man who desired her was hard for a woman to acquire). I think that women just have higher standards than men in this aspect. Either that, or it's men who are truly better at playing "make believe" than women are (despite what we've been lead to believe). In any event, it's one of two things: Either men actually believe that women they pay to have sex with them actually "desire" them sexually, or they just don't care. ;-)

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Registered: 07-08-2007
In reply to: biggino
Sat, 08-04-2007 - 9:43pm
I've never hired an escort...it probobably would be a lot of fun but I don't think I could pay for a date or sex....
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: biggino
Sun, 08-05-2007 - 10:03am

Welcome to the board biggino.

I don't foresee a chance that I will ever hire an escort, but I think it's a good option for some.



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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: biggino
Sun, 08-05-2007 - 10:04am

Welcome to the board havefuninthesun1.



I hope you'll visit August Roll Call, and let us get to know you a little better.


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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: biggino
Sun, 08-05-2007 - 10:06am
It's been my experience that if a woman wants to have sex, she pretty much can. The same is not necessarily true for men. I'm not sure I really understand why a woman would ever feel a need to pay for sex, other than perhaps for the power trip of doing so.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: biggino
Sun, 08-05-2007 - 10:28am

I agree that women don't normally need to hire men for sexual reasons, but I think male escorts provide other options for women. Things like having a date for the class reunion comes to mind. Personally, I'm not insecure enough to feel I need a date for any reason, but I know some women who definitely are. For such a woman, a male escort would provide her with a "no strings attached" type of date.

I also have a very close friend whose husband is much older than she is. He is unable to perform sexually, and she is tired of trying toys and new techniques. I know that she has often mentioned the desire to hire a gigilo for her own satisfaction. While she could easily find a man to have sex with, she wants to be sure to avoid any emotional situation should she decide to step outside of her marriage this way.



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