The male orgasim

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Registered: 12-12-2007
The male orgasim
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Fri, 12-14-2007 - 1:55pm
Do most men have multiple orgasms?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-14-2007 - 2:19pm

Welcome to the board, yepyep92.

A lot of men don't seem to experience orgasms without ejaculation, so for most they occur at the same time. Those that can usually have to train themselves to be able to. I think most guys would be envious to be in your position.

Here's are a couple of articles that might help explain it a little better:

"Is it true that men can have multiple orgasms?"
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/sexexpert/qas/0,,696792_705897,00.html

Understanding The Male Orgasm
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_100/143b_love_tip.html





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Registered: 12-12-2007
In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-14-2007 - 3:13pm
Cl-misty I do ejaculate everytime I'm just not sure if all men did that, most of my parteners look at me like I am crazy but then they get really excited?????
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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-14-2007 - 3:52pm
I suspect this is something that varies a lot from guy to guy. My post-orgasmic recovery period is pretty short, so depending on how long it's been since the last time DW and I had sex (or since I last masturbated) I can often orgasm (and ejaculate) twice in a single session, and occasionally three times. The three times thing was a lot more common, and a lot easier, 20 years ago than it is now.










Edited 12/14/2007 3:53 pm ET by bostonsteve
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-14-2007 - 4:22pm
If you're ejaculating each time, then it appears you don't need a lot of time for recovery. That varies from guy to guy, and usually worsens with age.




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Registered: 04-13-2007
In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 12:55pm
My guy definitely has a long recovery time. I would say 12 hours or so -- although it increases the more often we have sex because I don't think he fully recovers. Until then, he can get an erection within minutes but he won't orgasm without absolutely a ton of stimulation. Only one time have I seen him cum three times in a row. It was very early in our relationship; lights on, he pulled out, kneeled over my chest, gave me a facial, put it back in, kept pumping away for a few minutes, pulled out, gave me another facial, and did the very same thing a THIRD time!! It was a wierd thing, he was really innocent about it. I just remember the overpowering smell of sperm when it was there on/in my nose for at least 20 minutes!!!
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Registered: 12-12-2007
In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 4:00pm
It's gets longer after every orgasm but I can have three or four orgasms in and hour or so. the MORE stim
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In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 4:42pm
I have noticed that while he doesn't cum nearly as much if it's often like that, it becomes very thin and clear and shoots farther. If it's been a while, it's very thick and gooey and more whitish, and has a very strong smell, and doesn't really shoot, or maybe just a little.
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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: yepyep92
Fri, 12-21-2007 - 5:50pm
The sperm count is higher the longer it's been since his last ejaculation. His balls are little sperm factories, making new swimmers all the time at pretty much a constant rate.