A lot of men don't seem to experience orgasms without ejaculation, so for most they occur at the same time. Those that can usually have to train themselves to be able to. I think most guys would be envious to be in your position.
Here's are a couple of articles that might help explain it a little better:
Cl-misty I do ejaculate everytime I'm just not sure if all men did that, most of my parteners look at me like I am crazy but then they get really excited?????
I suspect this is something that varies a lot from guy to guy. My post-orgasmic recovery period is pretty short, so depending on how long it's been since the last time DW and I had sex (or since I last masturbated) I can often orgasm (and ejaculate) twice in a single session, and occasionally three times. The three times thing was a lot more common, and a lot easier, 20 years ago than it is now.
My guy definitely has a long recovery time. I would say 12 hours or so -- although it increases the more often we have sex because I don't think he fully recovers. Until then, he can get an erection within minutes but he won't orgasm without absolutely a ton of stimulation. Only one time have I seen him cum three times in a row. It was very early in our relationship; lights on, he pulled out, kneeled over my chest, gave me a facial, put it back in, kept pumping away for a few minutes, pulled out, gave me another facial, and did the very same thing a THIRD time!! It was a wierd thing, he was really innocent about it. I just remember the overpowering smell of sperm when it was there on/in my nose for at least 20 minutes!!!
I have noticed that while he doesn't cum nearly as much if it's often like that, it becomes very thin and clear and shoots farther. If it's been a while, it's very thick and gooey and more whitish, and has a very strong smell, and doesn't really shoot, or maybe just a little.
The sperm count is higher the longer it's been since his last ejaculation. His balls are little sperm factories, making new swimmers all the time at pretty much a constant rate.
Welcome to the board, yepyep92.
A lot of men don't seem to experience orgasms without ejaculation, so for most they occur at the same time. Those that can usually have to train themselves to be able to. I think most guys would be envious to be in your position.
Here's are a couple of articles that might help explain it a little better:
"Is it true that men can have multiple orgasms?"
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/sexexpert/qas/0,,696792_705897,00.html
Understanding The Male Orgasm
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_100/143b_love_tip.html
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Edited 12/14/2007 3:53 pm ET by bostonsteve
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