man can't go during sex-4 days
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man can't go during sex-4 days
| Mon, 11-27-2006 - 3:58pm |
Hi,
I have a friend who asked me to try and find out why her boyfriend can't cum (she doesn't want to use his computer to research this ). They had sex 4 days in a row. He gets aroused but can't cum. I'm married and my DH and I never had this problem. I don't have any info to give her. Has anyone been through this or knows anything about this. I don't know any other specifics. That's all she told me.
I have a friend who asked me to try and find out why her boyfriend can't cum (she doesn't want to use his computer to research this ). They had sex 4 days in a row. He gets aroused but can't cum. I'm married and my DH and I never had this problem. I don't have any info to give her. Has anyone been through this or knows anything about this. I don't know any other specifics. That's all she told me.

Oh, there are all sorts of reasons. One good one is that he might be stressed or worried about something - the sex, fear of pregnancy, his performance, work, the relationship... Any one of those and more could cause a guy to just not quite get there.
Maybe he's been masturbating and hasn't regained the "urge" to cum by the time he has sex? Maybe he's just out of sync with the sex but still aroused by it? I know that I've had the situation where I've not been expecting sex, and have masturbated not long before having it. Can't cum. Next day same thing. Masturbated thinking about the sex the night before and then same problem with sex that night. Four days seems a bit of a stretch but I suppose that it could happen.
Of course, I must ask, how long has it been a problem? If it's just a one-off four day period I wouldn't worry too much about it. But if it's a regular thing, then maybe something else is happening.
Since this is my friend we're talking about, I'm not exactly positive what their sex life is like. I asked her if it's been a problem for a while and she said that it happens occasionally. Most of the time, he's okay. She also mentioned that he has been drinking quite a bit lately. He's in a pretty well known band in Chicago. I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it.
Alcohol is a depressant and