The Man Who Got Jipped

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Registered: 11-29-2006
The Man Who Got Jipped
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Wed, 11-29-2006 - 5:42pm

I have a great guy right now and the only problem with him thus far is that he got jipped with the family jewels. He is exceptionally small and honestly I don't want nothing to do with it don't even want to caress it for him either. When I first saw it I was a bit disappointed and couldn't believe he was that small. It is boylike small. Anybody have some tips to make the best out of the situation? Yes I know there is more to a person than just sex but sex is a perk! Let me know! Thanks.

Glitz :)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 6:31pm

First of all, the "family jewels" are the testicles but I'm assuming you meant his penis.

There's not much you can do to overcome your disappointment in his size, particularly, if you're even refusing to touch it. Start there.

Is he just as small when erect? Many men are smaller when flaccid but actually grow quite a bit when erect.

However, if you are truly this disgusted by his size, then I'm sure he's fully aware of it. Most smaller men watch a woman's reaction the first time very closely.

I would say if you cannot get beyond it, do him a favor and move on. IF you truly want to work around it, then give him a chance. There's more to sex than intercourse anyway! He might be the perfect size for anal sex. And most women prefer giving oral to a smaller guy.

It's all in the attitude though. And remember, he may not be thrilled with some body part of yours, either.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 12:14am

If it disgusts you so much that you won't touch it, then you need to do him and yourself a favor, and move on. You might be passing up the best lover you ever had, since you won't even give him a chance!

There's a lot more to sex than a penis.....and a man can please a woman even without one.....but if you feel he was gypped, then your feelings will show, and there's no point in making the man feel bad about himself.

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Registered: 06-29-2006
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 8:23am
You say he is a "great guy". Just what is it that attracted you to him?
Was it his looks? Perhaps he has a highly paid job and you felt he would make a good provider for you?
What experience have you had with men "blessed" with a smaller member?
Are you secretly in fear that your track record with larger guys may have
left your own attributes unacceptable to him?
Although this problem makes a for an enjoyable conversation piece for some,
I have never seen it solved regardless of the number of responses it receives.
If you are of an invective nature, you might well point out his problem to him
in order to gain a response.
Or perhaps you should just go along your merry way.
once.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 10:21am

You might feel he was gypped but he might be perfectly happy with what he has and not feel like he was gypped.


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Registered: 11-30-2006
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 4:45pm
I'm sorry but get a life! You must be pretty shallow to be so concerned with that. My honest opinion (having very little information about you) is that this guy deserves better.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 2:10am
My guess is that she IS of an invective nature, since the thought of touching him disgusts her. That's just what the guy needs, having his "shortcomings" pointed out to him. It will surely gain her a response.....I can think of several!
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Registered: 02-02-2006
Tue, 12-05-2006 - 8:47pm

Glitz

I need to agree with each an every posted reply, You sound selfish and are looking at 1 thing and 1 thing only to this "Great Guy" you say.
How long have the two of you been dating or having sex, whats the concern now "does size really matter" that someone may be a great person, treats you right is caring and everyting a women looks for and here you are throwing him to the wolfes because you are not satisfied with the size of his penis.
Remember evolution did not create everybody equal, a good example are womens breast sizes (Hope not to affend those which have enhanced their selfs)but many women have breast augmentation not only because of medical issues but because they are not happy with what they previously had, and that is a easier fix. Penises unfortunetly are not that simple to correct and yes those men are probably self concious to what they have and have experienced being ashamed in locker rooms while growing up.
You need to sit back and think about do you either take what he has to offer in other ways as previously stated or move on but Dont hurt him any more than what he already is

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Wed, 12-06-2006 - 4:39pm

Glitz, you should dump him.

That way, you can find a bigger man. And he'll find a better woman.