A Man's Balls

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A Man's Balls
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Sun, 09-18-2005 - 5:25pm

There is a friend of mine who recently married in her thirties. She was a virgin. Yea, she was! Her husband is in his early 50s and was not a virgin. She said since she had been married, that she loved sexual relations. One thing she could not get enough of was examining and getting to know everything about his "male area". She said she was absolutely fascinated with it especially his balls. She said she could not get enough of looking, sucking, and touching. She said her husband had never thought much about his balls prior to her and now loved attention to them. In fact, he somewhat craved it now. She said he called her in the car on the way home one day and told her his balls were aching and needed her TLC.

This situation got me to thinking and wondering. This is my question: How common is it for a man to begin a new sensation towards one part of his body because he is with a new partner? Also, did any virgin you were with have any particular interest in any one part or thing?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 7:17pm

I don't think it has anything to do with virginity but has more to do with how sexually open a person is with exploring all parts of the body.


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Registered: 08-06-2004
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 7:20pm

I think it would be the same for men as women - I know as me and my husband have explored eachothers bodies we've found things we never did before to be highly pleasurable and cant get enough of it now.

For the first year or so of our relationship the anus was OFF LIMITS for both me and my husband - Now anal play is welcome, wanted, and craved occassionally.

Once you find a button on your partner and give it a little nudge - your partner is likely to want you to keep pushing that button.

I have been facsinated with the head of my husbands penis since we met and still am today. He has 5 of the cutest little freckles all around the hole - I still to this day count them lick them and love to look at them.

-my husband also likes his balls played with, licked and sucked on.

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Registered: 09-13-2004
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 10:30pm
that is sooooooooo funny because when my b/f and i became sexually active i was REALLLY into inspecting him. i fell in LOVE with his balls. i think they are just soooo interesting, freckles and all! and he love when i play with them as well.
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Mon, 09-19-2005 - 4:53am

I 'also' think its not uncommon at all for any person, man or woman, to learn new sensations with a new partner. As Tish perfectly stated though, it often depends on how open or inhibited each individual is. Couldn't be more true.

The Mrs. & I are very much into tantrics and massages, and never thought of it as such a sensual arouser prior to giving it a shot. So its not just the new partner, but its also the new things that a couple may try together for the first time or few times as well.

 

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Mon, 09-19-2005 - 4:40pm

I was a virgin in my early twenties when we married about a year ago. I'm fascinated by my husband's penis although I had seen and held it before we were married. I like to watch the small veins along the sides and the big vein on top when I'm giving him oral. Also, I'm continually amazed at how soft he can be one minute and how rock hard he can get in the next minute. I sculp a lot as a hobby and believe the shape and texture of his penis is really beautiful.

Elena

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Mon, 09-19-2005 - 5:10pm
I wonder if your attitude and interest about sexual relations before experiencing sex has a major impact on how much you like it after you have experienced it? I say this because I have not been sexually active and cannot wait to examine and experience! It is kind of funny because I am extremely fascinated with balls. I cannot wait to feel them and see what they are like when attached to a real live man. I am also interested in how the body hair looks and feels in that area too. I hope that the man I am with will give me a tour and will let me try it all out and ask a ton of questions! I wonder what men think about this?
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Mon, 09-19-2005 - 6:00pm

>>>I hope that the man I am with will give me a tour and will let me try it all out and ask a ton of questions! I wonder what men think about this?<<<

I think it is wonderful and should be part of a unique relationship. So many people have had 10 to 100 or more different sex partners, and I don't see how anything is different in their relationships. Your discovery trip around your partners body should be something special in your mind for a long time.

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Mon, 09-19-2005 - 8:16pm

>>I hope that the man I am with will give me a tour and will let me try it all out and ask a ton of questions! I wonder what men think about this?<<

My husband, from the beginning and still, loves when I explore. He seems to appreciate and enjoy the attention I give his genitals. Weather it be touching, fondling, kissing, looking at them, asking him questions about what things feel like and do they feel good.

I think it makes him feel not only loved but also sexy and intimate that we can talk and touch any part so matter of factly.

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Registered: 05-01-2003
Tue, 09-20-2005 - 10:11am
I find male genitals fascinating. I have had a variety of partners and I never cease to enjoy the different shapes, sizes, and responses of men's organs. I think that most men enjoy their balls being played with, and especially the very sensitive skin behind their balls. Elaine
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Tue, 09-20-2005 - 8:05pm

It is nice to know some men would like the attention. I know of one woman who was an older virgin. I have wondered if the wait adds to the need to examine factor. She said she just liked to examine just to examine. Her guy could be watching a football game and she would have him remove his clothes so she could look and play. She also liked to watch him bathe and dress and see how everything was taken care of.

Do men want to examine a woman like this? If so, is it just their first or everytime?

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