Married sex ?, good porn, etc.

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Registered: 07-16-2005
Married sex ?, good porn, etc.
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Sat, 07-16-2005 - 3:46pm

Hello. This is my first time posting here. I was going to ask this question on the "married sex" board-- but there many posts from women who are concerned with their husbands and porn, so I just did not feel comfortable bringing these questions to the table. I will ask them here.

My husband and I have been together for 3 years... recently married. I adore him... we have a good life together-- and really good sex. We do not really do anything too "kinky" but I have gently tied him up a handful of times-- he seems to like this! I KNOW my hubby has a kinky side, but I think he keeps it to himself. I think more will come out over time with gently prodding on my part. He surprised me last night by taking me to an adult store and had me pick out a vibe. I have never been in a store like that to actually buy something personal-- it has always been for a bride to be, etc. I was blushing like mad, but very pleased.

I would like some ideas for decent porn. Something a woman would like as well as a man. I am no prude-- but all those nasty close up shots of straight screwing is not my thing. It turns me off. I do need something a little more erotic, with real arousal and all of that.

Some of my turn ons are: masturbation (esp. male)... any sex that seems genuine (arousal turns me on) and decent woman+woman stuff... group kinda does it for me too *l* My hubby really likes the woman+woman thing... so any video with a man and two women he would appreciate.

I did read the post below on porn, so I will start there. He did mention Jenna Jameson, so I will check her out too. If you have any titles you think I should look at, please post them.

Thanks!

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 07-16-2005 - 5:56pm
Try looking out for stuff from Candida Royalle. She has made women-friendly porn for years now and leans towards decent plots, loving relationships, and avoiding graphic closeups. For something a little in between, try any of the Brad Armstrong directed movies. Some are normal graphic blue movies but some strike a better balance between graphic sex and believable relationships. It's not easy finding a decent blue movie out there that combines believable graphic sex and interaction between couples. They always go off the deep end somewhere.