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Masturbate with a woman
| Wed, 01-04-2006 - 5:54am |
Did any of you have masturbate in front of your female partner's or have this thought in your mind? Will you ask you female partner to get naked in front of you to do it? Please share you views with everyone.

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In answer to my statement that I sometimes exercise nude in front of my husband and masturbate while doing so, Katmandoo2001 wrote:
"It's good that you're comfortable enough to do this in front of your husband, but not everyone is. And that would like likely be the reason why more people don't do it in front of their partners. Of course, some just think masturbation is a private activity, too."
Yes, I admit, I am comfortable doing it-- and it excites him. I like exciting him, and though I think sometimes it's very hard work trying to stay attractive, I do work at it--I enjoy sex and would like lots of it. After all, he's my husband; I'd like to keep him interested. And it is a private activity--just as my husband is my private business. I am not embarrassed or ashamed being naked. On the contrary. It's thrilling to be desired and I like it. If other women don't care for this, that's their choice.
Well, my DH and I enjoy being naked together and enjoy sex as well but don't feel the need to "work" at being attractive to one another. We love each other so there's no work involved. We DO make effort to please one another in bed though.
My comment was in response to your questioning why more women didn't choose to masturbate in front of a spouse. There are many women who have issues from the past, such as abuse, etc. that make being so overtly sexual difficult. I wasn't questioning your choice, just your seeming assumption that masturbating in front of one's spouse should be easy and natural. As I said, it isn't for everyone.
As I said, I wasn't criticizing what you choose to do with, or for, your DH, so my comments were never directed at personal choices.
But my DH and I have always had differing libidos as well. Not so uncommon at all but most couples manage to figure it out and find a compromise, as we have.
As far as your activities with your female friends....also your choice. I can't say that I believe that cheating is something I would ever approve of but my personal thoughts about your specific circumstances aren't important.
Have you ever considered or gone into counseling together? My DH have in the past, and it helped immensely. I can't recommend it enough.
Edited 2/13/2006 2:03 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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