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| Thu, 07-10-2008 - 3:48pm |
im 57 and my wife iws 52 but dont care about sex anymore but wants to make me happy with a handjob or a BJ. i do enjoy but i like to sit on the computer and look at porn and mastubate myself about 3 times a week. am i crazy or what?

Welcome to the board, outdoorsman.
If you're crazy, then you're probably in good company! I think the ease of accessing porn on the internet has made that a pretty regular thing in the lives of many.
It's great that your DW gets involved in making sure your needs are met, but has she ever talked with her doctor about her own loss of libido? It's pretty common among menopausal women to have hormonal changes. For many, that means a lowered libido, but there are medications that can be helpful if that's the case. Whether it's menopause related or not, talking to her doctor might open her to a whole new outlook.
ETA: BTW, it would be great if you joined in on our current porn survey, http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlletstalkab&msg=22269.1.
Edited 7/10/2008 4:13 pm ET by cl-misty_mae
Hi outdoorsman. It's nice to meet you. I don't think you're crazy at all. If you are, then so are lots of other people.
As for your wife, has she spoken to her gyn about her libido?
I don't think your crazy either.
Crazy for masturbating or crazy for watching porn to do it?