Masturbation???

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Registered: 02-21-2005
Masturbation???
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Mon, 02-21-2005 - 11:54am

Hi Everyone!

I am new here and I would like to have some advice on this subject. Even though my BF and I have great sex, I would like to spice things up a little bit. We have never tried masturbating together and I was wondering if anyone has any suggestion ???

thanks
Ymusbcrzy

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 1:02pm
I'm not sure what kind of suggestions you're looking for.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 1:47pm
I would suggest just starting with yourself and see how he responds. If he takes over for you, then he may not be comfortable with being an observer only. As Tish said, this isn't for everyone, but no harm in giving it a try.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 02-21-2005 - 2:47pm

The best suggestion I can give you is to talk to your b/f about it. It's called communication. Maybe he is perfectly happy with things, and he doesn't WANT to spice things up. Maybe he's willing to spice it up, but he has other ideas as to how to do it.

Suggest your ideas to him, and see how he feels about it.

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Registered: 02-17-2005
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 3:12pm

Buy some toys! You could be sitting there all night with performance anxiety lol!

~KElly

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Registered: 02-21-2005
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 3:30pm
That is what I am sooo afraid of performance anxiety !! I have never done this before (in front of someone that is ) !! We have discussed masturbation and my BF was the one that said he would love to see me do it, that it would turn him on totally. But I am a little embarassed to do it. I don't know how, should I do it like I would when I am alone ? is there any tips that someone can give me about this ?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 6:43pm
It depends on if you want to do it.

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