Masturbation After Heartbreaking BreakUp
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Masturbation After Heartbreaking BreakUp
| Thu, 04-19-2007 - 12:19pm |
It's been almost 3 weeks since my breakup from my bf of 2 years.
The other night, I tried masturbating. Everything was okay until point of orgasm, when I realized I was fantasizing about him. I was imagining everything we would do together, how it would feel ... the tender & the, well, not-so-tender. At orgasm, I just started bawling & didn't stop for a while.
Is this normal? What gives?

Welcome to the board notmyrealname23. It can often take a good bit of time to be able to move on after ending a long term relationship. I'm sure that you are missing your ex, and many memories came flooding back to you. Crying is part of the healing process, and I think what you describe is a normal reaction.
A board that you may want to visit is Breaking Up is Hard to Do. One of the CLs there, cl-i_b_sandradee, was actually the April CL of the Month for the Love & Sex channel. There are many resources and a lot of support on that board for people who are in similar situations as you.
While time will help you heal, having a place to talk with others can be very comforting.