masturbation vs. handjob
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masturbation vs. handjob
| Thu, 09-15-2005 - 8:01am |
I was just wondering, does it feel better for a guy to masturbate or receive a handjob? My boyfriend says it feels better to masturbate, but I'm not sure I believe him. When guys are masturbating they can do what they feel they want. So, in general, guys- what feels better- masturbating or receiving a handjob?

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If what you're doing to him while giving him a handjob isn't feeling as good for him, then tell him to guide you.
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It depends for example, When I masturbate I can do it alone wich is good and relaxing, or I can do it waching my wife's ass and she moves on a provocative way.
Now in this case I can come over me or over her ass or breast (in the shower) is very exiting. And when she gives me a hand jod are two ways the simple wich is just doing the job or when she tells me her sexual fantasies with other man, wich is very very hot.
SO:
1 the lower 5 the higer.
Masturbation alone. 3.0
masturbation watthing her coming over me. 3.5
Masturbaion waching her ass, 4.
Masturbation wachimg her and coming over her ass or breast. 5.
Hand jod simple, 3.5
Hand jog with fantasy 6.
I'm not replying to anyone in particular... Rather I have a question for all...
Whats the deal with handjobs? I mean my husband has no interest in them, has never asked me for one, and in 8 years he has masturbated as mnay time as I can count on one hand - Like when I've been out of town or recovering after giving birth.
At least every other day there is a post about handjobs - I just dont see how they can be that popular.
Too each his own, my husband is certainly not representative of every other man, but His feeling about them in general is why bother with a lame old hand job when you can have a Blow job or something more...
You're comparing "apples and oranges"! They're both fruit, but they're both different. There's no reason you can't enjoy both of them! Some days you feel like an apple, other days you feel like having an orange!
Why would you not believe what he tells you? He's been masturbating for a long time, and he knows exactly what to do and how to do it...and he enjoys it. That doesn't mean he doesn't like receiving a hand job...but sometimes he likes to do it himself.
They're two different sesations and they're some unique advantages to both. I can make myself come much faster from masturbation and its always feels great. When I'm self-servicing, I'm the rhythm and tempo is always just right because I'm in total control.
If she give me a handjob, I might have to direct her a little on slowing down, speeding up, squeezing too hard or not enough. On the other hand, the feeling of her pleasing me is incredibly good. And sometimes -- when she gets it just right -- she gives me something I can only describe as multiple orgasms without making me ejaculate. She's only done this with handjobs. Its so incredibly intense I usually have to make her stop after a few minutes, then when she finishes me I come so hard I can't talk for a few minutes.
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