Masturbations Habits? - A Survey

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Masturbations Habits? - A Survey
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Wed, 01-24-2007 - 10:06am

OK everyone, I thought it was time for a survey on our habits with solo pleasure!

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances?

2. How often do you typically masturbate?

3. Most common masturbation technique?

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate?

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in?

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate?

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate?

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation?

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like? Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower?

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?

Have fun replying... and if you have any more Qs for others, add them to your reply.

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Registered: 05-17-2006
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 10:08am

my responses:

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances?
Not too sure. Remeber exporing down there from a young age, but proper masterbation only stared in my teens and i was never too sure if i had orgasmed or not, now i know that I did.

2. How often do you typically masturbate?
Very often. If not daily, then at least 4 times a week.

3. Most common masturbation technique?
I start off with just gentle rubbing, then i have to scrunch my hand into a fist, lay face down and rub myself this way. Its only recently i've learnt how to orgasm just by playing with my clitoris.

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate?
Anytime, but mainly late afternoon or at bedtime.

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in?
None other than at home.

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?
Not that i can remeber.

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?
Noone has caught me.

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate? No

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate?
Lots of different ones. Normally involve me being with another girl but others have included work friends, people off the telly, being with another man, catching my man with another woman and the strangest one was my boyfs ex watching us!

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?
No

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?
n/a

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?
Probably on holiday with my friends while they were in the bedd next to me.

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation?
Only with partner

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like? Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower?
Yes, we both enjoyed it.

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!
Not D as i dont have a webcam. E i have filmed for tohers then enjoyed the thought of them watching me.

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?
Lots. Im a member of a amateur site which has some good videos

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Registered: 12-07-2006
Thu, 01-25-2007 - 3:34pm

Hi, fun survey...

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances? I was about 7 or 8 when I learned that moving my legs around and like rubbing myself on couches or pillows felt good, but I think my first orgasm from it came around 12. I was laying in bed and trying to rub myself on a pillow but it wasn't working well so I tried using my fingers, and oh my god! it was so intense. I rolled over onto my back and continue rubbing myself with my fingers and it just felt like the world exploded. I never really went back to pillows after that.

2. How often do you typically masturbate? Usually a few times a week, more if i'm not gettng any.

3. Most common masturbation technique? Just rubbing my clit with my fingers, maybe inserting one, I also like to kind of tease myself sometimes, just like rub around my clit and vaginal area...like the skin and my upper thighs...sometimes guys do it and it gets me realy exited.

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate? In bed or in the shower.

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in? Um...on the couch sometimes...not too many places.

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place? I've masturbated twice in movie theaters (and once had someone do it to me), and i've done it in my backyard by th epool, but that's really private.

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react? No one's ever caught me masturbating...have done it in front of people though a few times. The only time I ever really risked getting caught was one time when I was sitting on the couch, a few feet over from my dad and we were watching a movie that was pretty hot and I was all horny so I started genlty rubbing myself under the blanket. It took a while I had to be really careful not to squirm around or make noise...but I had a really intense orgasm (I had to go to my bedroom and change my panties when he went to the bathroom).

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate? Um...do friends count?

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate? Just past sexual experiences...love thinking about what stuff I've done and pretending it's happening right then and there

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places? Not really

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught? On the couch with dad right there (above)

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing? Same answer...maybe in the bed next to my roommate at college

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation? Not realy, no. Group sex, yes, not masturbation.

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like? Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower? Girl: yes, I have. Had five guys cum all over me...I masturbated them and sucked them all a little before they came. It was fun and sloppy and sexy, but had to brush my teeth and shower afterwards

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later! A-yes, B-no, C-no, D-no, E-no. Sorry, how boring of me.

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching? Have to thnk about that one...a lot of hot movies

Lauren

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 5:58am

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances?

::I don't really remember. I must have been about 10 or 11yo, I suppose. Probably playing around at night in bed.

2. How often do you typically masturbate?

:: Usually 5 or 6 times a week but the last few weeks I must be going through a dry spell because I'm down to once or twice.

3. Most common masturbation technique?

:: I'm a guy, so it's lube, my right hand grasping the shaft firmly, left hand circled around base of penis and fingers lightly pressing behind testicles.

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate?

:: Any time, any place. It might be the shower in the morning, computer in an afternoon, porn movie in bed at night. I suppose with the porn available on the 'net, in front of the computer is a regular haunt.

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in?
:: Bedroom, sofa

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?
:: No, have done in the past.

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?

:: Yes, a long story when told in detail, but a sister-in-law walked in on me literally at the climax of a blue movie at home one afternoon and I was caught red-handed. Embarrassment was probably the best way to describe the reaction.

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate?
:: No.

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate?
:: Definitely more visual-based than "feelings" and "story". If I had to pick one thing it would be visions/images of stockings and firm breasts and nipples spilling out of sexy expensive lingerie. If I had to pick one more, it'd be graphic close-up images of aroused genitals during intercourse and orgasm. If I had to pick a fantasy that is a 'story' I guess having intercourse with another woman and passionately kissing my wife at the same time would be a goodie.

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?
::Back of an intercity bus.

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?
:: Probably at boarding school in the dorm rooms. Masturbating without making a sound at night became an art-form for most of us I think.

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?
:: I can't recall. Not sure I've been in quite that situation.

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation?
:: No.

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like? Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower?
:: No.

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!
:: Yes to a), b) c) and e).

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?
:: A "normal" movie you mean? That would be 'Enemy at the Gates' when Jude Law and Rachel Weisz have sex.

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 8:34am

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances?

5y/o. In bed touching myself and started rubbing my clit with my fingers. I thought I'd 'hurt' myself when the orgasm hit!

2. How often do you typically masturbate?

Once or twice a week

3. Most common masturbation technique?

Shower massage

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate?

Well, obviously in the shower and that's in the morning - what a way to start your day!

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in?

bedroom, living room, den

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?

I would love to do this now, but never have since teenage years/dating...

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?

no one's ever 'caught' me

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate?

no, but I have let partners watch - they seem to love watching

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate?

my imagination is unbelievable - it could be anything - porn I've seen, a passage from a book I've read, past experience, fantasy experience.....

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?

would work count?

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?

at work

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?

in next bed with college roommate

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation?

no more than with one other person

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like? Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower?

No, I've never had a cum shower, but I was allowed to watch a circle jerk when in college.

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!

Yes to (a) and (b). I'm not techie enough for (c) or (d).

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?

'Play Misty for Me' when Clint Eastwood is making love to the crazy woman and Roberta Flack is singing "First Time Ever I Saw Your Face" in the background. Uhhhhh, excuse me I'll be back later.......................................











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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 02-20-2007 - 9:06am

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances? Hmmm after playing around with my hard dick for a couple of weeks i started to hold it tighter and started to pull and tug at it for a few minutes until i reached the climax and hot cum came shooting out. I was 11 at the time, i started wanking in bed and had to jump out to go and cum in the bathroom over the sink.

2. How often do you typically masturbate? About 4 or 5 times a week, it depends on how hot the sex life is.

3. Most common masturbation technique? kneeling down on the floor, my right hand moving fast along my shaft, with my left hand holding my balls firmly and stroking them. I like to put a wet finger over the tip of my dick for a bit too. i then get faster and rougher, holding my hard dick tight and my balls i cum all over the joint.

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate? In the shower or in bed

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in? Hmm, in the back of my van sometimes, in my garden i have a secluded place to masturbate, ilike the fresh breeze

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place? Yeah in my garden in the open air, on a train and bus, public toilets if i have the horn and at friends houses in the shower hehe.

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react? Once when i was younger i was staying at a mates, i was taking a shower and i started to feel horny with the power shower beating against my naked body and dick. So i started to hold my dick stroking it to an erection. i started wanking, thinking of my mates mum who is a pretty hot mamma. Taken away with the fantasy of doing sexual pleasures with her i was wanking pretty hard. Then who opens the door but his mum! She got a good view of my with my hand on my dick. She said sorry, grinned and left the room! She has been sexy and teasing eversince around me.

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate? Yeah, nextdoor livces a family. the mother has long blonde hair and looks real hot, a milf if i ever saw one. I used to spy on her doing the gardening out of the bathroom window, watching her bend down to weed the garden in her mini skirt, watering the plants on a hot summers day. Getting turned on i would wank in the shower with the curtains open so if she was to turn around she would catch a good glimpse of me. She once turned around and saw me and started to be very suggestive. she started to turn me on even more,winking at me and rubbing her breasts under her vest top mmm it was a hot sight.Licking her lips and rubbing her thigh i came gladly in front of her

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate? I imagine girl on girl often, having a hot threesome with two girs, being seduced by my friends mum, or milfs, i like the idea of being seduced by a teacher, oh miss i dont understand.

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places? On the bus, whilst driving, outside.

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught? In bed with my cousin staying on my floor. She was only a couple of feet away.

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing? When my cousin was staying in my room. She was very close, i got highly turned on for some reason so i masturbated in bed before going to sleep. i let out a couple of groans. the same happened ages ago when my sister was sleeping in my room, i was a lot quieter though.

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation? nah apart from my gf.

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like? Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower? Yeah i have cummed all over girls before, i love watching my hot cum ejacualte and cover there breasts, face and mmm on the ass with her on all fours mmm

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later! A-yes, B-no, C-yes, D-no, E-no. Maybe if i had a webcam. i have filmed myself and shown it to girls on messenger.

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching? Wild Things, the lesbian scence in the pool with neieve campbell and denise richards

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Registered: 02-24-2007
Sat, 02-24-2007 - 4:46pm

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances?

I don't remember exactly, but I was probably 12 and poring over my older brothers' Playboys that were stored on my top bedroom shelf closet.

2. How often do you typically masturbate?

About 5x per week.

3. Most common masturbation technique?

Right hand w/ a little olive oil.

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate?

Favorite or most common? In bed right before I fall asleep.

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in?

Sofa.

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?

In high school the night I met this hot chick, I had to go out in back of the garage when I got home.

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?

No.

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate?

No.

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate?

Old girlfriends & ex-wife.

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?

On the bus at night from Sacramento to Reno

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?

On the aforementioned bus.

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?

The same bus. Nobody was sitting next to me, but probably within one or two rows.

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation?

No

14. Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower?

Not exactly a cum shower, but I would cum all over an old girlfriend while we were naked humping with her on top. I think she liked it.

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!

Yes to (a) only.

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?

Just one?

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Registered: 11-08-2005
Sun, 02-25-2007 - 2:16pm

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances?

I was 6 when I lost my virginity (obviously not by choice) so I was very young when I started to masterbate (to feed my physical need even tho I didn't understand it) I would rub my blanket over my clitoris/vagina over and over again until it 'felt better'... I think I was in my pre-teens when I really started to understand my actions.

2. How often do you typically masturbate?

Daily

3. Most common masturbation technique?

a. Laying on my stomach and playing with my clitoris with two fingers right at the opening of my vagina, not completely inserted
b. Laying on my back with my vibrator in one hand and my tits in the other!

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate?

My bedroom... or the bathtub... anytime!

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in?

Basement on the couch

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?

I would love to, fantasize about it but I'm always afraid of getting caught by children!

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?

that I know of, no one has ever caught me...

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate?

yes

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate?

I fantasize about group sex, or being watched.

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?

At work when I was 17... I just couldn't control my intense urge for orgasms. I work behind the counter ... :)

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?

at work

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?

In the same bed. When I first met my hubby, he got this book from the library that made me sooooo hot. I didn't want to wake him but really needed to let go!

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation?

Hubby and I only however I do fantasize about it

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like?

I love it when a guy comes on my tits.

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!

Yes to all

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?

there are many...

Katie

 
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Registered: 02-22-2007
Sat, 03-03-2007 - 5:09am

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances? I was 17 & my bf wanted me to know how to do it myself so I'd know what t was like and I could guide him when the time came!

2. How often do you typically masturbate? 5 to six times a week

3. Most common masturbation technique? I rub my finger on my clit and lips until I'm hot,wet and swollen-occassionally I insert a finger but clit stimulation works for me! I have a vibrator but I worry it's too loud.

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate? In the shower or in bed

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in? On the couch

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?
In the backyard, on a beach in Hawaii

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?
Not even my husband has caught me! I don't know how he'd react.

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate?
Not watch, but I have done it while on the phone with another man. The conversations are graphic and we both get to hear eachother climax!

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate? I imagine being with this other man in person in every possible situation!

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?
In my car while driving, at work, at the movies.

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?
All the above!

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?
In bed next to my husband, in a hotel room with another couple.

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation? No

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like? Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower? No

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!
Yes to (a)&(b) No the the rest

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?
There are quite a few but I specifically remember Sex, Lies and Videotape!

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Registered: 04-20-2007
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 7:54am
wow just readingall of that has really pushed my buttons
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Registered: 02-17-2004
Fri, 04-20-2007 - 11:58am

1. How old were you when you first learnt to masturbate to orgasm? What were the circumstances?

I was very young, and I used to dry hump my Raggedy Ann Doll. My mom caught me on the side of the couch one day doing it and explained to me that if I was going to do "it" it should be in my bedroom.. She in NO WAY made me feel like I shouldn't be.. BUT I was about 4-5.

2. How often do you typically masturbate?

I would say ALOT.. a few times a week even if I am having sex... morning and right before I go to be

3. Most common masturbation technique?

my hand if I want to be quick, but I like toys

4. What is your favourite place/time to masturbate?

morning or right before I go to bed.. and I dont' care.. I have been in bed, in the car, at my office in the bathroom.. when the urge occurs, I follow thru...lol

5. What other places do you regularly masturbate in?

my car, and I have a few times in my office,

6. Do you ever masturbate in the open air, either secluded spot or more public place?

yes,

7. Has anyone apart from a partner ever caught you masturbating? If so, what were the circumstances and how did they react?

yes, when I moved into my new apartment, we had no curtains.. I was in my spare bedroom and I realized my new neighbors husband was watching me thru his window and it turned me on more.. it was fun.. he NEVER said anything to me and the next morning, he was jumping at saying hello to me.. but of course when I realized he was watching, I put on a show.

Anytime, I was caught in a snow storm sriving home, and I started to masterbate in the care, and a guy in a truck next to me started to watch so he stayed with me, and then grabbed himself and started himself.. it was making me hot thinking about him doing it. when we were both done, he rolled down his window and said thank you.. and I said back to him... "no thank you!!" never saw him again

8. Have you ever deliberatley let anyone who is not a partner watch you masturbate?

yes..

9. What are your favourite fantasies when you masturbate?

It varies

10. Have you ever masturbated in any unusual places?

yes,

11. Where is the riskiest place you've ever masturbated without being caught?

in my bosses office bathroom with him in his office at the time, ---

12. What is the closest you've been to another person when you're masturbating without them realizing what you're doing?

my husband in bed with me... lol

13. Have you ever been involved in a group masturbation situation?

no but I would

14. Have you ever had a cum shower performed on you - if so, what was it like?

Have you ever been part of giving someone a cum shower?

15. Have you ever masturbated (a) while looking at porn (b) having phone sex with someone (c) having cybersex (d) in front of a webcam for someone else to see? (e) videoing yourself to watch later!

yes, and I love it.

16. What is the hottest movie you've ever watched with a scene that you just HAD to masturbate watching?

so many I cant even think of one..

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