Maturbation

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Registered: 08-24-2005
Maturbation
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Wed, 08-24-2005 - 2:03pm
Hello, I just wanted some opinions. I know that when men are in a relationship they maturbate more. That doesn't bother me, I accept it as a part of their life. My issue is my boyfriend will masturbate like 2 times a morning. We still have sex regularly, and our sex life isn't lacking at all. I even like to watch porn with him. Is maturbating at least 2 times a day too much?

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Registered: 08-08-2005
In reply to: steph11290
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 2:15pm


If it doesn't effect your sex life at all, I don't see why it would be a problem. Has he told you why he masturbates so often?

Kayla

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: steph11290
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 2:47pm

" I know that when men are in a relationship, they masturbate more."

Says who? That certainly has never been the case from my experience with men. And my DH masturbates MUCH less than when he was single! No one general statement like that applies to all.

But if YOUR guy's habits are bothering you, for some reason,then why not ask him about it? IF it's not affecting you adversely though, what difference does it make?

It may seem like a lot to you, but he's likely been doing this for some time now.




Edited 8/24/2005 2:48 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: steph11290
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 3:02pm

I never heard of guys masturbating


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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: steph11290
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 4:48pm
I agree with the others. As long as it's not affecting his life in anyway, then it's not too much. It has nothing to do with being in a relationship (?) or not being in one...it has to do with the fact that he likes to do it. It's got nothing to do with you, it's not "replacing" you.....it just feels good. All men do it, some more than others.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: steph11290
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 10:39pm

I don't think that guys masturbate MORE when they are in a relationship, but I have heard that regular sex and masturbation keeps the testosterone level up and keeps you horney - so there may be some truth in it somewhere for some people. I have to say that I masturbated much more when I was single - some rare days I was just so horney that I could manage five times a day. Other days I wouldn't at all. Even now, in a long term relationship, I usually masturbate most days. It varies greatly from guy to guy I'm sure.

I don't think that twice a day is a problem as long as you are happy with the amount of sex that you're getting, he's not scaring the neighbours, or complaining about chaffed skin and friction blisters!

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Registered: 08-24-2005
In reply to: steph11290
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 4:54pm
I read that men masturbate more from Cosmo!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: steph11290
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:11pm
Oh yes! And THEY should know! LOL!
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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: steph11290
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 9:41am

Hey Kat......how did we ever survive our early years without Cosmo to 'splain everything to us?

Just reading the cover in the store makes me realize why young women have such strange ideas about sex.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: steph11290
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 10:42am

Please don't believe everything you read in Cosmo (or any where else for that matter).


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Registered: 04-21-2004
In reply to: steph11290
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 4:55pm
You're having as much sex as you want, and both of you are happy, right? Then neither of you are doing anything wrong.

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