Medical Exam Embarassment

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Medical Exam Embarassment
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Mon, 11-27-2006 - 2:46pm

When I was 21 and in college I had to have a physical for athletics. When I made the appointment the only available doctor was female, and young (about 30). When it was time for her to examine the "equipment" I was mortified that I got an erection as she was examining me. I almost bit my lip off I was trying so hard not to become aroused.

I was wondering if the ladies have similar reactions when they have a pelvic exam. Do you get lubricated and aroused? My wife is going in this afternoon, which got me thinking about this subject. Just curious . . . .

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Registered: 11-21-2006
Mon, 11-27-2006 - 3:34pm

Aroused during a pelvic exam? Not at all. As unaroused as as I can possibly be, regardless of it being a male or female doctor. There's just nothing sexy about it - speculums are not fun, my doctors have always been professional and you're often there because something is wrong.

So, at least for me, a pelvic exam is decidedly NOT a turn on.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Mon, 11-27-2006 - 4:15pm
Terrible embarassment yes, arousal absolutely not. Having cold steel or hardened plastic inserted as well as the digital rectal exam are most uncomfortable.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 11-27-2006 - 5:00pm

Nope, never been aroused getting an ob/gyn exam


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Registered: 01-07-2005
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 1:37am

Are ya kidding? Let's see. . . hmmmm, lets lay you on a cold vinyl, paper covered surface in a cold room and stick a freezing cold piece of metal up ya and see how turned on you get! :)

Now a breast exam - totally different subject; but it's still cold!

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 1:43am

Men can get aroused by a thought, never mind their "equipment" being handled by a female, doctor or otherwise. That's the way men are made....and believe me, all female doctors have had it happen many times over when examining a male. Just as male doctors don't think about sex during a pelvic exam....women doctors think nothing of a male erection..they know it's normal.

I've never known a woman to get aroused during a pelvic exam....they're not attracted to the doctor, he's like a mechanic who works on a car....and also, women don't have the kind of equipment that's "handled".... Most women like Tish, just want to hear that everything is A-ok, and get dressed and go home.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 5:40am
Once I hade satuation when i been to lady Dentist.She is was so beautiful and had gread boos..she was bedning over me to treat my teeths...so I was getting good view of her cleavage and bit of boobs and also I was getting great smell of her body odour+perfume...which are so erotic to me..so I started to getting hard...I overlapped my legs to hide my erection...idont know whether she observed that or not....
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Registered: 06-11-2003
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 6:41am
I usually feel a ton of anxiety, and as far from aroused as a person can get.
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Registered: 10-18-2006
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 8:00pm
Totally not! That's about as far from aroused as I can get....not only uncomfortable, but awkward as well.

 

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 6:40pm
Ugh. NO way! It's the least sexy/arousing experience for the majority of women. There's nothing more uncomfortable than being probed and examined like a side of beef on a cold slab. Once again...NO Way!