to the men

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to the men
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Mon, 05-22-2006 - 11:13pm

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men what does it mean to you to have your manhood touched before intercourse and what kind of need is it.. What look do you receive from her and how does it make you feel... what FEELING goes through you when you are touched on your manhood... penis..

what does vulnerability look like to you in sex....

Judith.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: sjudma
Tue, 05-23-2006 - 8:33am

I'll answer for Dh.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sjudma
Tue, 05-23-2006 - 10:56am
My DH loves having his penis touched, as part of foreplay or not. I don't know too many men who don't. It feels good and makes him feel cared for and desired. And he doesn't feel vunerable during sex. He trusts me and knows I won't hurt him physically or emotionally.
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Registered: 01-05-2006
In reply to: sjudma
Wed, 05-24-2006 - 10:45am

Women I am grateful for your response and I am helped by your response women. I am helped by both...

Men I am helped by your responses even though the women respond for you. So please men respond. I benefit from both male and female responding.

nervous -

men what does it mean to you to have your manhood touched before intercourse and what kind of need is it.. What look do you receive from her and how does it make you feel... what FEELING goes through you when you are touched on your manhood... penis..

what does vulnerability look like to you in sex....

Judith.

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Registered: 08-12-2004
In reply to: sjudma
Wed, 05-24-2006 - 12:27pm
Judith, I love to have my penis touched ...it means lo0ve and acceptance from my lover that she would want to feel me in her hands, mouth, wherever. The need I feel to be touched is physiological, meaning it incorporates the mental and physical. To have my penis touched physically feels wonderful and brings great tingling pleasure. A woman touching my penis mentally means that she likes/loves it and wants to be closer to it, also that she wants to create the pleasurable feelings for me which in turn creates a being loved emotion. The physical, and mental aspects intertwine and the outward effect is emotion. Pleasurable emotions and physical feelings, along with the chemical changes these create in the mind/body...all boils into a euphoric high that can be obtained in no other fashion.
All from the woman touching my penis. God created us masterpieces..man and woman
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Registered: 07-06-2004
In reply to: sjudma
Wed, 05-24-2006 - 7:56pm

Having the penis touched and admired is very thrilling. It makes the organ extra swollen and rigid. And the head flare wide and drip it's lubrication. Having a full hard erection touched gives a guy a feeling of power and strength, and deep need to be in a partner.

The vulnerable part are the family jewels hanging below. A source of great pain if abused by a partner, or ultimate pleasure when a partner feels the weight and fullness of each one. When a partner gently tugs on the pair, or uses fingers to make the bag swing around, I feel like a bull.

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Registered: 01-05-2006
In reply to: sjudma
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 10:11pm

thank you

Judith