men and 1 position only..
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men and 1 position only..
| Sun, 04-24-2005 - 10:01pm |
Do all men only know one position?-missionary- And how come most of them dont care bout kissing during sex?? boring!!
| Sun, 04-24-2005 - 10:01pm |
I don't know that I've ever been with a man who was interested in only one position. Not that there's been *that* many, but still...I remember more going on that just missionary. And I've actually had to tell DH not to change position every 3 minutes and let me enjoy just *one* for a little longer! And if male posters here are any indication, they love man-behind (sorry, I detest the 'doggy style' name!) and just adore woman on top.
As far as kissing, Dh does it off and on for the whole time.
1. You're spending your time with the wrong men!
2. What's wrong with you telling them that you want to try other positions? If they object, again, you're spending your time with the wrong men.
ALL men aren't like that, I've only met one, my ex husband.
Sounds like you need to talk to your guy.
It really isn't fair, to yourself or to other men, to apply the negatives of one man to all men.
You indicate your bf only likes one position. But it takes two. Have *you* suggested or initiated different positions?
Have you talked to him about this?
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
It's obvious that you're asking a rhetorical question and in doing so, complaining about a recent experience(s) but I have to agree with the others...you're apparently hanging out with the wrong men!
That has never been my experience but even if it was, I would just ASK for what I want. And then....if that man was unwilling to consider my needs as well, then he'd be out the door.
Edited 4/25/2005 10:40 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
" There do seem to be men who will stick with something they like and not budge from it."
I wonder if they ever figure out why they can't keep a partner for very long! LOL!
But we all tend to have a favorite, sure-fire position that brings orgasms almost every time but there's really no excuse for not doing other things until it's time for the home stretch. Particularly if your partners's fave is not the same position!
Seems to me, that asking for what you want is the answer. Most men realize that they may not get another chance if they continue ignoring those requests!