men and 1 position only..

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Registered: 04-24-2005
men and 1 position only..
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Sun, 04-24-2005 - 10:01pm
Do all men only know one position?-missionary- And how come most of them dont care bout kissing during sex?? boring!!
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sun, 04-24-2005 - 10:12pm

I don't know that I've ever been with a man who was interested in only one position. Not that there's been *that* many, but still...I remember more going on that just missionary. And I've actually had to tell DH not to change position every 3 minutes and let me enjoy just *one* for a little longer! And if male posters here are any indication, they love man-behind (sorry, I detest the 'doggy style' name!) and just adore woman on top.

As far as kissing, Dh does it off and on for the whole time.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 04-24-2005 - 11:52pm

1. You're spending your time with the wrong men!

2. What's wrong with you telling them that you want to try other positions? If they object, again, you're spending your time with the wrong men.

ALL men aren't like that, I've only met one, my ex husband.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 8:19am

Sounds like you need to talk to your guy.


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Mon, 04-25-2005 - 8:59am
There do seem to be men who will stick with something they like and not budge from it, but my experience is that they enjoy experimenting with positions. I think the fact about the male of the species is that they are programmed to penetrate and they will rush to do so regardless of position, at least, that's my experience. Elaine
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 9:18am

It really isn't fair, to yourself or to other men, to apply the negatives of one man to all men.


You indicate your bf only likes one position. But it takes two. Have *you* suggested or initiated different positions?


Have you talked to him about this?



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Mon, 04-25-2005 - 10:26am

It's obvious that you're asking a rhetorical question and in doing so, complaining about a recent experience(s) but I have to agree with the others...you're apparently hanging out with the wrong men!

That has never been my experience but even if it was, I would just ASK for what I want. And then....if that man was unwilling to consider my needs as well, then he'd be out the door.




Edited 4/25/2005 10:40 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Mon, 04-25-2005 - 10:38am

" There do seem to be men who will stick with something they like and not budge from it."

I wonder if they ever figure out why they can't keep a partner for very long! LOL!

But we all tend to have a favorite, sure-fire position that brings orgasms almost every time but there's really no excuse for not doing other things until it's time for the home stretch. Particularly if your partners's fave is not the same position!

Seems to me, that asking for what you want is the answer. Most men realize that they may not get another chance if they continue ignoring those requests!

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Registered: 03-09-2005
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 4:42pm
Sometimes DW may want a different position, and when she does I honor her request. It's for our mutual pleasure anyway. As for the kissing, I wish she would kiss more during sex. My mouth and tongue are always ready.