Men and Multiple Orgasms

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Registered: 05-30-2006
Men and Multiple Orgasms
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Tue, 05-30-2006 - 9:31am
Just wondering if anyone else has had any experience like this. I started dating someone new, and this weekend was the first time we were intimate. Well the first time, he came twice, which was cool. A first for me, and he says for him. Then it was like every time we did, he came more often than the time before. It went like this:
Friday, 2
Saturday, 3
Sunday, 5
Monday, 8
Monday night, 6
And I don't mean like different sessions throughout the day, these were all in one session. Most of the time, we were in bed for less than an hour and half, so these were all in relatively rapid sucession.
I am in no way complaining at all, I was just blown away by the numbers. He says this is the first time anything like this has happened, never even come twice before, and now it's like unstoppable or something. Neither of us are complaining, we were just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this before, or anything like it?
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Registered: 03-14-2006
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 4:25pm

The 2 guys that I have dated over the past 4 years also came 2 times within half an hour. I was with my husband for 10 years and this never happened with him...I can't answer your question because I am also wondering the same thing. Does a guy come 2 times or more because a) he is still young, i.e. in his early 30s b) he is very attracted to the girl that he is with or c) he just has a very high sex drive.

I'd love to know too.

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 4:37pm

It is not widely understood that in men ejaculation and orgasm are two separate processes which just happen to generally occur simultaneously.

My question for you is, are you talking about multiple orgasms, or multiple ejaculations? Men can (supposedly) train themselves to acheive multiple orgasms in the same way that women can; however multiple ejaculations (more than two in an hour, let's say) would seem to me to be quite uncommon if not nearly impossible.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 4:39pm
It's been a while, but if I was dating someone new I could cum several times during a session. Nothing like what your guy has managed though. I put it down to the newness and the extra excitement being with someone new provides. I imagine that the number of orgasms he's having will drop back as the relationship develops but I'd guess that he'll still have several per session for a while yet. Certainly seems a bit unusual that he's managed to do this day after day. I think that the most that I ever managed in 24 hours was about 8 and then I think it was a couple of days until we had the next opportunity and desire to have sex. I can't imagine doing that for several days in a row! I guess that you'll just have to enjoy it :-)
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Registered: 05-30-2006
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 5:17pm
I would assume it was multiple orgasms, but he says that it was about 50/50 some were just orgasms some were ejaculations.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 6:27pm
Yes, my DH used to do this regularly when he was younger. Ah, Hormones, they can do wonderful things, can't they?
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Registered: 04-21-2006
Tue, 05-30-2006 - 8:14pm

My DH has never done it, but my bf has. According to him it has his first time experiencing it. He is 45 years young. So, maybe is a combination of a high sex drive, attraction and excitement towards the person that the man is with.

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 1:39am
To my knowledge, men are able to climax without ejaculation. Current guy, age 52, is able to climax about 2 times per session, though ejaculation will always finish him off. For him, mutliple ejacts are rare, but possible.
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Registered: 03-14-2006
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 9:24am
It was 2 ejaculations in half an hour....I guess I should take it as a compliment...my ex-husband didn't do that in 10 years of being together.
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Registered: 03-30-2000
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 1:23pm

>>Does a guy come 2 times or more because a) he is still young, i.e. in his early 30s b) he is very attracted to the girl that he is with or c) he just has a very high sex drive.

Any/all of the above, though it's easier to manage when you're younger.

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 1:42pm
As a woman, you should take it as a complement. He obviously finds you VERY attractive. There is something in the male psyche that turns the family jewels into filling machine when with a new desirable woman for the first time. Enjoy it all.