Men and penis size
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| Sun, 07-17-2005 - 4:12pm |
Why does penis size come up so much relative to all other things men could be concerned about? I mean what about things like height, baldness, body type, etc.?
My current lover, who is older, has a very large penis and is tall, but he is bald and although by no means fat could be in a bit better shape. My last bf was short and had a small penis but had beatiful hair and was totally fit. Both of them are perfectly confident, not cocky but just not insecure, guys who were totally realistic about their assets and shortcomings.
I mean I just want to remind the guys here that even though we girls sometimes marvel at the idea of large penises and it sounds like we're overly fascinated with them, there are infinitely, infinitely more important things out there. I know the guys here have gone off the deep end when I see the posts about "how to tell before you talk to her that a woman prefers a big penis." That's lunacy and you guys are torturing yourselves for absolutely no reason.
It was my grandma's theory that everyone was handed an equal set of assets and liabilities. And I think that's true to a surprising extent. The worst thing is comparing yourself to others (e.g. often times in these threads guys are aghast to learn that they are below average in size). It's like, I'm cute and in pretty good shape and I do fine with guys, but my roommate is truly gorgeous and gets ten times the attention from men that I do. Am I jealous? Do I feel sorry for myself? Not at all! It just builds character.

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well you are kind of saying what i have been saying which is that guys care about their penis because females care
if i was allowed to link mutliple different boards here i would show you all the theards where female posters say how important it is to have a large penis or "multi orgams sized girth" and how they and their friends discuss the size of someone they hooked up with and say how majority of women want a man above average size or even the state size range they like and how if a guy does not meet that they will dump him/laugh and leave whatever heck you can look at some threads here example the measuring thread one poster was saying how the guy had to be larger then a something in order to "qualify".....
i could go on and on whats about whats said but when guys see that all the time you can't blame them for being worried if they are "good enough" or if the person they like will except them
sorry its has become my peeve when i see a female posters that post how godly guys are with large penises (for example you) then ask why guys worry about it
this always happens on other boards an di always make the same comment... i have kind of grown sick of it now
With your statement about how females talk about there guys size all the time and say how huge he is in almost every post, I can see your point to a degree, but what you have to realize is that is not the opinion of ALL women.
yea i know thats not the opinon of all women i am just saying that on those boards you have guys who are constantly drilled will all those comments and get insecure then when they post asking questions the vary same female posters that post all that then turn around asking how they are sick of penis size threads and why men only think about it etc etc...its almost like they forgot that what they have wrote. The samething happens here.
but i kind of see what you are saying about women but the plus side is women see men with many type of women with different shapes, breast size whatever unless its about labia size or something so women know that there is guys that like different things where as for penis size guys don't know its all talk and here-say and on the internet the average size range of a womens partner is 8-13 inches same thing for a guys size lol.
lol if there there was a stamp saying a guys size on each guys forehead then guys would know what they have is good but thats not the case.
Edited 7/17/2005 9:55 pm ET ET by dr_blar
Edited 7/17/2005 9:57 pm ET ET by dr_blar
>> Why does penis size come up so much relative to all other things men could be concerned about? I mean what about things like height, baldness, body type<<
In a way, penis size is the sum of all those things put together. At the center of a man's virility is his penis, all those other things are side issues. Even things like wealthy and power are side issues to a degree. A penis is what makes a man a MAN. Strip away everything that a man has ever had, his cars, his wealth, his job and his clothes and he still has his penis. The only thing about a penis that can be judged when looking at it, is it's size. So size is THE measurement it is judged by. If a penis vibrated, people would probably argue that more vibrations were better too!
>>even though we girls sometimes marvel at the idea of large penises and it sounds like we're overly fascinated with them, there are infinitely, infinitely more important things out there.<<
Well, I know that not every woman is concerned about penis size. But even so, if women are concerned about this part of a man, there are going to be men that are concerned about what the women are thinking.
Isn't it just the same as a woman's boobs? I have always wanted more there, so that cleavage wasn't such a foreign concept to people who ogle me lol. But I'm not the least bit upset or obsessed about it -- ya takes what ya gets if ya dates me.
I fail to see how a penis is all that much more significant an issue than a woman's breasts. Plus, let's face it: there are a HELL of a lot worse things that could happen to you than having a small penis.
now you are not really making sense to me first you glorify that you like large penis and can only be with men with large penises now you are saying "ya takes what ya gets if ya dates me" do you follow that rule when you date guys???
besides alot of guys think they are small when they are average/perfectly in the normal size or they follow what a women said just like what another poster said some women say a size range they can be with lets just say i dunno 7-100 inches and nothing under.... thus anyone under would then feel like they are small. Yes it foolish but when most say the same range then guys will think that
i also don't get where people think its some competitive nature of males. i have yet to see a guy be angry or whatever because another guy is bigger. its more like a guy wanting to know if a girl will like what he has
If you left your current BF and got a new one who wasn't endowed, you, basically, are going to marvel at your ex, but not your current BF. I'm sure that will make him feel great :)
I think your Grandma's theory is a good one. Every one has their pluses and minuses, but that still doesn't stop me from being totally unattracted to a woman who prefers a large penis. Doesn't matter if she is great looking, has a great body, intelligent, and kind. If she has that preference, I, simply, have no attraction to her.
In the end, we all have to make choices that we are comfortable with and if you can't be comfortable with someone, then it's better to pass them by.
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"Why does penis size come up so much relative to all other things men could be concerned about? I mean what about things like height, baldness, body type, etc.?"
IMHO, the younger generation women seem to want the big penis. As if, when a guy goes on a date, he has to advertise his mesaurement.
Also, my wife has ONLY known my 4 inch penis. She seems satisfied. Maybe, the womem who want MORE/BIGGER penis have had TOO MUCH SEXUAL EXPERIENCE ALREADY...
Mac
Its just a case of many women wanting their cake and eat it too.
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