Men and penis size

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Men and penis size
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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 4:12pm

Why does penis size come up so much relative to all other things men could be concerned about? I mean what about things like height, baldness, body type, etc.?

My current lover, who is older, has a very large penis and is tall, but he is bald and although by no means fat could be in a bit better shape. My last bf was short and had a small penis but had beatiful hair and was totally fit. Both of them are perfectly confident, not cocky but just not insecure, guys who were totally realistic about their assets and shortcomings.

I mean I just want to remind the guys here that even though we girls sometimes marvel at the idea of large penises and it sounds like we're overly fascinated with them, there are infinitely, infinitely more important things out there. I know the guys here have gone off the deep end when I see the posts about "how to tell before you talk to her that a woman prefers a big penis." That's lunacy and you guys are torturing yourselves for absolutely no reason.

It was my grandma's theory that everyone was handed an equal set of assets and liabilities. And I think that's true to a surprising extent. The worst thing is comparing yourself to others (e.g. often times in these threads guys are aghast to learn that they are below average in size). It's like, I'm cute and in pretty good shape and I do fine with guys, but my roommate is truly gorgeous and gets ten times the attention from men that I do. Am I jealous? Do I feel sorry for myself? Not at all! It just builds character.

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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 4:56pm
Ever stop and think that these women who have a large penis fedishes, just might have really large vaginas?..I would say Im in the catagory ,size wise, that iphillippa discribes in her last post. I have been with at least 3 women that was not even close enough, size wise, for their liking..I have also been with a few where that was too big for their liking...But most seemed to think it was fine(most gave no comment as to size anyways) but a few would make comments. Honestly most people will fit most people just fine, and that is why size really doesnt matter to most women.
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 5:54pm
Tish, I don't understand you, Kat, and humpdaddy. Tish, you read curiousgeorge's post that his wife said she can't feel him much. You know humpdaddy himself has said in another thread that he knows PE works because he has a good friend that has gained. You see curiousgeorge is concerned about his size and thinks nothing can be done to increase it. Why do assume that he and his wife wouldn't want to try penis enlargement exercises? Despite all the describing I did in those 2 threads about PE, and humpdaddy's admittance it works, no one in this thread will let curiousgeorge know so he can judge for himself. Instead, you will never mention it. Even if you don't believe me that it works, or even if you think it's foolish for a man to want to change his penis size, it's not your call. It's his life. As a moderator on this forum, you see the guy has distress over this. Yet, you won't for a moment consider he might want to know, or that his wife might enjoy sex with him more. You have admitted yourself that it does make a difference for some women. Even if you think PE doesn't work, what if you're wrong. Haven't I seemed like an honest guy about it? Don't you believe humpdaddy? Yes, you have a right to only say what you want to say, or feel what is best for curiousgeorge and his wife. Being you are a moderator though, I'm a bit surprised. Kat is exactly the same way you are about it, so she won't consider telling someone in need either.
Humpdaddy won't even mention it to him, and he knows it works. Even if you won't give me any credit, don't you ladies give humpdaddy some? You folks are only willing to teach your beliefs and not give full information you are aware of.
To Curiousgeorge: Sir, look in the 'Penis' thread, and in the 'To those that say size matters' thread. I may have the titles wrong. Anyway, those are two threads I posted in in the past month, so maybe you can find them. I wasn't going to post again here, but yet here I am. I really didn't intend to do so again, but when I read about your wife saying she can't feel much, I'm doing it for her as much as for you. In the future, I won't help anyone else find out since I'm not going to be coming here often, and besides the moderation here clearly thinks negatively about it. This is my last hurray here, done for you and your wife. Curiousgeorge, judge for yourself if it's something you want to pursue. It's not for everyone, and it's not easy. However, when done properly it doesn't hurt like blonde said it did him. If it hurts, then it's not being done correctly. I was surprised to read blonde say that, as pain is a big no no for the well informed PEer. Only do this if you join a good PE forum. Don't try any of it on your own. Post in this thread if you're interested. I'll come back and see your response, and can let you know where I'm from if you wish. I don't know if that's allowed, but I saw blonde post in one of those threads the forum he moderates at. Good luck to you and your wife whatever you decide.
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 6:08pm

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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 6:41pm

In a post in one of those other two threads, when Kat asked about the "secret society' muttley stated he had had his last warning and wouldn't post the link. Muttley said to email him if anyone wanted to know. Kat then replied "Fine, keep it to yourself", and muttley replied that he had told her long before and she didn't bother then to find out for herself if it was real. Kat claims she can't assume it works because she has no evidence. Yet, from those posts I got the impression Kat doesn't really want or care about any evidence, since she didn't bother a year or so earlier, and since she wouldn't PM muttley for the link---after asking about it? You hunted down the previous thread muttley was referring and posted link to it. Maybe I overlooked it, but hadn't his reference to our PE site been removed in that thread you hunted down?

You posted in this thread to curiousgeorge's remark that nothing can be done to change size. You isolated that sentence of his, yet made no reference whatsdoever to that being possibly incorrect. You only isolated that sentence to say only something else, even though you are freshly aware of recent discussions. Why isolate a sentence that size can't be changed when you at least suspect that's not the case? It's like you are burning that incorrect statement of his into his forehead, so he only knows to walk the pure and wonderful path you guys want for him. It's not that you should bring up PE everytime someone has a size complex, I don't expect that, but it's that you zeroed in on that statement that really got my attention. From there I got to wondering why you did that. At least when you read a paragraph by someone who has a size complex and they say nothing can be done, don't pull that one sentence out in a quote and yet not point out that from discussions here there is reason to believe that sentence is incorrect. Whether you believe in PE or not, you are aware of it and it looks suspect to isolate that sentence and not say something about it. Anyway, muttley's statement that he's had his last warning, and my not seeing the site listed, plus all the dancing around PE here I see, like it's so taboo, is why I said moderation is negative toward it.

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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 6:53pm
This is your post that got me going. Look at how you picked that sentence of his out, and then wrote from a quote that nothing can be done. That was so wrong in my book, when you know better. It doesn't matter you don't PE, haven't studied PE, etc. You are aware of muttley, me, and even humpdaddy's good friend. You've read plenty to know not to press his sentence that nothing can be done. Stuff like that is why so few people ever become aware something can be done. All they ever hear is reenforcement that they can never change. You picked it out, and reenforced it, even though you know more than curiousgeorge about PE (you've read my posts--you do know something).
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 7:00pm

Hmmmm. Surprised to see you back here, Been.

In any case, I never advocate anything that I don't have personal experience with. I've looked over the site that you and Mutt recommended and I haven't changed my opinion of the exercises, so why should I recommend them?

If I personally believe that there are healthier ways to deal with size issues than committing to such a stringent routine of stretching exercises, then I will continue to recommend those instead.

However, YOU are free to do as you choose and believe. But it's not MY job to inform anyone about a technique or exercise that others believe in.

So, now should I pop over to your forum and see if you are passing along MY misgivings about the subject?

IF you want to inform Curiousgeorge of these exercises, then, by all means, do so.

Remember, this is an OPINION board and no one has to take any advice or suggestion they may receive here however, I'm going to give MY opinion on a given subject, not pass along yours. I'll leave that to you.




Edited 7/20/2005 7:51 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 7:31pm
Kat, look at your response to curiousgeorge. You told him why worry about something he can't change. So I guess you don't believe PE works? I'm honest to a fault, humpdaddy has a good friend that has grown, surely muttley was an honest guy to you, even blonde said he gained in the brief time he did it, and you've seen the tremendous amount of discussion going on at Thunder'sPlace with 40,000 members. Doesn't that mean anything to you? Even if you won't ever be willing to bring PE up, please don't reenforce that it doesn't work. If you suspect it does work, then your statement to him is hard to understand. It's about as closed minded as one can be. That's not an opinion you gave him, that's misinformation. Why say that to him? That's not expressing your better way, that was expressing against something that you know full well has long time members muttley and humpdaddy as believers, even if you chosse to ignore my posts about it. You guys have an agenda against anything other than your way. You claim not, but it's too obvious. You told him nothing can be done. You are wrong. That's bad info.
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 7:48pm

You "don't advocate anything you don't have personal experience with". That doesn't stop you from saying nothing can be done, when you have no experience.

At least don't say anymore that it can't be changed---please. Yes, you are free to say it can't, but you don't really know that, do you? Afterall, you don't have personal experience with it.

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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 7:53pm
After viewing the website and getting an overview of the techniques and from my experience after 40-something years in the world, no, size can't be significantly changed permanently without surgery.


Edited 7/20/2005 7:56 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 7:56pm
Good grief. I give up.

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