Men and penis size

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Men and penis size
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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 4:12pm

Why does penis size come up so much relative to all other things men could be concerned about? I mean what about things like height, baldness, body type, etc.?

My current lover, who is older, has a very large penis and is tall, but he is bald and although by no means fat could be in a bit better shape. My last bf was short and had a small penis but had beatiful hair and was totally fit. Both of them are perfectly confident, not cocky but just not insecure, guys who were totally realistic about their assets and shortcomings.

I mean I just want to remind the guys here that even though we girls sometimes marvel at the idea of large penises and it sounds like we're overly fascinated with them, there are infinitely, infinitely more important things out there. I know the guys here have gone off the deep end when I see the posts about "how to tell before you talk to her that a woman prefers a big penis." That's lunacy and you guys are torturing yourselves for absolutely no reason.

It was my grandma's theory that everyone was handed an equal set of assets and liabilities. And I think that's true to a surprising extent. The worst thing is comparing yourself to others (e.g. often times in these threads guys are aghast to learn that they are below average in size). It's like, I'm cute and in pretty good shape and I do fine with guys, but my roommate is truly gorgeous and gets ten times the attention from men that I do. Am I jealous? Do I feel sorry for myself? Not at all! It just builds character.

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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 7:57pm
Thank you. I don't tell you what to believe, so please respect my opinions and beliefs as well.
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 8:01pm
You clearly don't get what this board is about Been. This is an OPINION board. Do you get that? None of us, including YOU, is a professional here, so believe what you like, pass on what you like and what works for you but stop attempting to alter my opinions and responses. You are overstepping your bounds.
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Wed, 07-20-2005 - 8:16pm
I'm not sure when I'll be checking back for curiousgeorge's reply, but earlier I said Thunder'sPlace. I checked it on a google search and that brought up text only. By typing ThundersPlace (without the ')that brought up the regular link with graphics and avatars and color on the page, not just text.
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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 9:20pm

First of all, Curious is not new to this site.


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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 9:52pm

Been-there, you have been telling me I should have told Curious about the exercises, Kat that she is aware of them and Hump, but that none of us mentioned it to Curious.


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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 10:01pm

Kat, I'm building a brick wall to beat my head against.


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Wed, 07-20-2005 - 10:09pm
Kat, See my speaking to curiousgeorge in post 43, telling him to look in the other threads for info, and see my naming the site for him to see in post 54 (and in another post also I think). I never did directly reply to a post of his. I figured he will see it when he's reading this thread.
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Wed, 07-20-2005 - 10:11pm
Sorry, I meant Tish. Honest mistake, I was hurrying.
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Thu, 07-21-2005 - 1:01am
Nah. Why bother? It's not my job to further an obsession for this type of thing. Much less micromanage this board. I think it's unhealthy and potentially harmful....whether Been agrees with that or not. It's JMHO!


Edited 7/21/2005 1:03 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Thu, 07-21-2005 - 1:54am
I do agree with Tish that if someone wants to find out bad enough that the search engine works. I said earlier that don't expect you guys to do that. What really sparked my post was Kat and Tish both responding to his sentence that nothing can be done and agreeing with him. My point was mainly this--- if you are going to say nothing can be done, maybe then you could at least mention there are those that say otherwise. But I have no defense against your point that it's your opinion, and that I have no right to press you about it. Just like you folks, I'm a very nice person, even though I may not have seemed it. I only want to help him, just like you do. However, Tish made a good point about the searching is there for those that care enough. Kat, you made a good point about micromanaging. I agree with both you on that. Once again, I only really got going again because of the agreeing with him, when I felt you knew enough otherwise. For the record, I don't disagree at all with the advice Kat, Tish, Hump, and others give here. Very good advice, that no doubt helps many people. My point is just that sometimes people can't overcome hurdles without physical change. My point is that those particular people don't know physical change is possible, and go through life with more difficulty as a result. That's all. Yes, I do also believe PE can enhance sex for some that already have a good sex life. Despite my belief in the usefulness of PE, I want it to be clear though that I think you give good sound advice that helps a lot of people, except on PE imho. I won't pester you folks again. Yeah, I know, I've said that before.

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