Men and penis size
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| Sun, 07-17-2005 - 4:12pm |
Why does penis size come up so much relative to all other things men could be concerned about? I mean what about things like height, baldness, body type, etc.?
My current lover, who is older, has a very large penis and is tall, but he is bald and although by no means fat could be in a bit better shape. My last bf was short and had a small penis but had beatiful hair and was totally fit. Both of them are perfectly confident, not cocky but just not insecure, guys who were totally realistic about their assets and shortcomings.
I mean I just want to remind the guys here that even though we girls sometimes marvel at the idea of large penises and it sounds like we're overly fascinated with them, there are infinitely, infinitely more important things out there. I know the guys here have gone off the deep end when I see the posts about "how to tell before you talk to her that a woman prefers a big penis." That's lunacy and you guys are torturing yourselves for absolutely no reason.
It was my grandma's theory that everyone was handed an equal set of assets and liabilities. And I think that's true to a surprising extent. The worst thing is comparing yourself to others (e.g. often times in these threads guys are aghast to learn that they are below average in size). It's like, I'm cute and in pretty good shape and I do fine with guys, but my roommate is truly gorgeous and gets ten times the attention from men that I do. Am I jealous? Do I feel sorry for myself? Not at all! It just builds character.

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Interesting point of view mac, no need to feel like you're in trouble for that, LOL!
I just wanted to add my two cents to that mindset. I've read many examples against AND for that point, so I think its still different needs for different people, nothing more, based upon everything learned so far.
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Please, penis enlargement does NOT work.
If it did, do you know many millions of men would be dangling to their knees? This is one of the main problems that men get, especially when claims like this prey upon some of the more real fears that men have and they're suckered right in.
Please guys, work on your smile and sense of humor. It will take you much farther than a 10 inch penis will.
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