men and sex after ejaculation
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men and sex after ejaculation
| Fri, 04-22-2005 - 10:50am |
is it uncomfortable for a man to continue making love after ejaculation? My husband has been doing it lately. i wonder if it is bc i am high libido and he is relatively low and he is trying to satisfy me. he is excellent in bed and we are open to toys so he shouldn't feel pressured to keep going if I haven't reached orgasm. he can reach for the vibrator. on the same note if i perform fellatio to orgasm can he still perform??

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It depends on the man! Obviously, it's not uncomfortable for your husband.....or he wouldn't be doing it! Some men can't because they lose their erection right away, others maintain their erection for a while.....others can keep their erection, and eventually ejaculate again.
The same goes for oral sex. If a man is "done" when he ejaculates during intercourse, then he's usually done when he ejaculates during oral sex.
Why don't you just ask him what's going on? If you're married, surely you can talk about it! Maybe he's doing it for you, maybe he's doing it because he enjoys it. Only he knows why he's suddenly changed his "routine".
Every man is different, and every man "changes" from time to time. Communicate with him...he's the only one with the answers for your questions.
Uncomfortable? Not likely but for many, it's impossible since their erection goes away as soon as they ejaculate. My DH's penis gets very sensitive right after orgasm and he needs time to recuperate.
But some men keep their erections and are able to continue after orgasm. Why not ask him if he wants to continue with any other activity?
Have you considered going for one orgasm for yourself, during foreplay, so that he won't feel pressured to last longer than he's able during intercourse?
I'm sure your DH would tell you if he was uncomfortable though.
It all depends on the man.
Hi cftaylor:
Using the search function, type in "male refractory period or sexual refractory period."
is it uncomfortable for a man to continue making love after ejaculation?
It depends. There's usually a period of between 30 seconds and 15-30 minutes when the penis is so sensitive that almost ANY stimulation is simply to much to take.
But not always.
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