men and sex after ejaculation

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Registered: 04-10-2003
men and sex after ejaculation
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Fri, 04-22-2005 - 10:50am
is it uncomfortable for a man to continue making love after ejaculation? My husband has been doing it lately. i wonder if it is bc i am high libido and he is relatively low and he is trying to satisfy me. he is excellent in bed and we are open to toys so he shouldn't feel pressured to keep going if I haven't reached orgasm. he can reach for the vibrator. on the same note if i perform fellatio to orgasm can he still perform??

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2004
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 8:05pm
Hi worrieddadof3:

 

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Registered: 04-26-2005
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:36pm
I don't think that it is as uncommon as you think. It isn't quite as fun as before, but, it is still pleasurable with the correct level of stimulation. Your partner may just be expanding his repetoire, and how can that be a bad thing. If he complains of discomfort, there is a problem, otherwise, don't worry -- be happy!
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:49pm

Many times ejaculation is similar to many o clitoris situations, we just become too sensitive after a major orgasm or ultimate climax. The tip of the penis is sooo sensitive for many of us men and can become literally for several minutes at that. Just something to keep in mind.

If sensitivity is not an issue, then I'd guess manual or oral would be just fine in trying to re-raise the issue, sorta speak, lol. Because its such an exhausting experience at times, men at those particular times just won't be able to "perform" anymore for a while anyway, and many of us tend to fall to sleep afterwards as a result as well.

 

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