to the men breasts -size etc.???

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to the men breasts -size etc.???
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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 10:08pm

breasts: what size do you like and why? how does it help you or when you use your mouth what do you experience inside... do you find want more of the breast in addition to intercourse-not sure how to say this?

Judith

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 11:47pm

Judith, these questions that you ask are questions that can't really be answered, because each man is different, each man likes different things, and each woman is different and likes different things.

Some men love big breasts, some men prefer smaller breasts, some men aren't interested in breasts at all!

Your other questions have to be answered the same way. Some men spend a lot of time in foreplay (inserting fingers, or tongues) and some men don't. A man who is a good lover will find out what his partner likes, and that's what he'll do. Some women like that kind of foreplay, some women don't like it. For some, it's a way of arousing a woman, and helping her to relax and lubricate. Many women prefer oral or manual clitoral stimulation during foreplay.

All of us are different. We all like different things. We learn what our partner likes, and they learn what we like. Then we do all those things to please each other. Maybe a man likes to stimulate a woman's breasts, and maybe that woman doesn't really get much excitement out of that, but she lets him do it because he likes to do it. Maybe the opposite.....he's not interested in her breasts, but she enjoys having them stimulated, so he'll do that for her.

There is no "manual" for what can be done or what should be done....it's all according to individual preferences. If I tell you what I like to do, or like to have done to me, it may be VERY different from what you like.

If you meet someone who you're interested in, and you become sexually active with them, then you talk to each other, and you find out what each other likes, and that's what you do. And if you move on to another partner, you have to ask the same questions again, because the second partner will be different from the first partner.

These are all things that we have to learn for ourselves....by trying, and experimenting, and finding out what's good for us, and what's not.

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 12:25am

I can't believe I'm answering this, as I'm running the risk of being seen as really shallow. But it's late, nobody has my address, and

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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 3:56am
I knew you had an expert tongue!!! I can actually climax from DH using his mouth and tongue on my breasts, paying particular attention to my nipples, they are like extra clits for me, very sensitive. He loves the fact that it makes me cum, especially when he goes on to give me oral and I climax again.
Delicious....
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Registered: 04-17-2003
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 9:43am
I'll come out and say it, I'm pretty shallow in this regard. I prefer big girls, size 20'ish and large breasts are part of that equation. Of course, I'm happily married (to a very lovely, sexy big beauty of a woman) so it doesn't matter how shallow I am about looks, I'll never touch or want to.

 

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Registered: 09-17-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 12:11pm

There is nothing shallow about having preferences.

My fiance says my breasts are the "perfect size" although I don't think he has much of a preference about size to be honest, he seems more interested in the nipples then the size. As it's been said, some guys like big ones, some guys like smaller ones, some guys don't have much interest in them at all! It's like on Friends when Joey is trying to convince Monica and Chandler to let him get ordained and marry them and he says (in reference to the pervy minister who stared at Monica's chest) "And you know I won't be staring at your chest because everyone knows I'm an ass man!" lol.

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 1:23pm

Wow. You sound like a lucky couple indeed!


:)

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:19pm

thank you

would you "use" them during intercourse and if so how would it or what part (how do i say this and ) do they play during intercourse if any?

Judiths

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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:25pm

Thank you for your responses below.
agree; understand;

thank you for your answer and I understand what you said below. Your response below "helps". Any anwer below like yours is all that matters to me. I realize the fact that there will be no set way and I am not looking for a set way of doing it.

I dont know how else to word this.

JUdiths

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 5:24pm
JUdith, When my wife is on top, I like and she likes me to lick and suck on her nipples. It is pleasure for her , and I love giving her pleasure.
To the poster who says her husband brings her to orgasm with nipple stimulation... What exactly does he do while licking sucking?.. (other than flicking, sucking, using the tip or the flat of the tongue)?
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Registered: 12-24-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 7:26pm

Whatever positions for sexual intercourse that give me access to my partner's breasts can certainly be used in that way. Missionary position would enable me to suck on them. Doggie position would enable me to reach under and stimulate then with my hands, etc.


I particularly like it when I am on my back and she is lying on top facing away from me. This isn't always an easy

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