to the men fingering a woman

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to the men fingering a woman
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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 10:04pm

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When you finger her in her vagina with two fingers before entering her with your penis, how do i put this into words, (questions are my way of being able to put something into words) how does that help reading her for intercourse and do you like doing it men and why?

Do you always have a desire to put your two fingers in.. or is that a need before you can enter vaginally? please elaborate...

The deeper the response the "helpful" it is

judiths

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 12:42am

I think you just instinctively know when

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 1:07am
As a female, clitoral and nipple stimulation always make me want to be "filled" and I have no issue putting his hand down there to 'fill' me. It's never done to me 'ready' me, it's always done because it's a "need" I express to them.
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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 1:24am

emotion: confusion!

I don't understand why you are asking this question. You are a woman? Surely as a woman you know that you do not need a man to put his fingers into you to make you ready for intercourse.

Sometimes men LIKE and ENJOY putting their fingers into a woman's vagina as part of foreplay and as a way of stimulating her to make her more aroused and ready for intercourse. It is not essential and men do not always have the desire to do that. A man can have intercourse with a woman without putting his fingers inside her first.

A lot of your questions don't have good answers. All men and all women are different. Many of the things that you talk about are personal preferences that vary from person to person. There are no scientific easily defined answers that apply to everyone.




Edited 4/6/2006 1:30 am ET by westridge2001
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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:11pm

thank you for your response. I understand you and agree.

Believe it or not your answers are very "helpfu" . Yes your answers is good. Even though you may not see that.. I am "asking" (questions are my way of putting into words; I am not sure I can even explain it words. Just trust me your answer is what I needed... I realize there is a personal preference and i am not seeking the scientific answer.

JS

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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:14pm

Thank you.

Judiths

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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:16pm

Thank you...

adding to the other.. What do you experience emotionally and phsically when you put your fingers in there.. And what is a response of hers physically when your fingers are in there-does that make sense?

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:30pm

By that time I'm already feeling physically and emotionally excited. When I put my fingers inside her, it just increases my excitement, knowing that this is going to intensify her experience even more.


And her physical response is always just that--more excitement. Perhaps squirming, thrusting, vocalizations of pleasure, more wetness. All the common signs of sexual arousal.

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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 9:46pm

Thank you for your responses.

I understand you and your comments and, confusion.

trying to figure out how to word this: When you insert your fingers -(boy how do i say this) is it like you are pushing through something or does she open wide if you will?; or is it like you are stretching her open to go in... And is her vagina an automatic response in closing around your fingers?

Does she squirm towards you or just squirm?; thrusting: does she ..........

JS

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Fri, 04-07-2006 - 9:58am
I do it to tease mainly and to get the juices rolling until she says: Ok, now!

 

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Fri, 04-07-2006 - 9:34pm

JS,


I'm assuming that you're a woman (maybe based on a past post?). Anyway, if you're a woman, you know that there's nothing to push 'past' when entering the vagina. Well...unless you're a virgin, then there's a hymen. But once the hymen is gone, it's just like a tunnel.


But yes, as a woman becomes more sexually aroused,

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