Men.... the flip side of Mancreature's ?
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Men.... the flip side of Mancreature's ?
| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 9:02am |
Mancreature's post down below....
| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 9:02am |
Mancreature's post down below....
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just my $.02, i'm curious to read the replies from guys.
honey
Good point. I was reading Mancreature's post and was thinking that men and women are not that far apart, although there is a lot of talk that we are SO different.
Masturbation to me is exactly as some of the female posters described: It is PURELY a physical release and not fully satisfying at all. Not nearly the sort of experience that I have with my wife.
I also know that some men have no problems with "one nighters", however, the couple of times that I have had these experiences (back in College), they left me very empty and unsatisfied (even as a young man). I learned from those one nighters, that without emotional commitment from both of us, that sex was just masturbation with a breathing partner. I too would probably not use an "escort" for sex. Having said that, I don't begrudge someone that would want to visit a pro. Not my thing, however, I have a difficult time with the idea that prostitution should be illegal. Why is it illegal to sell something that you can give away?
ANyway, just my two cents.
Peace.
Scott.
Hi Scott,
I don't think there is a lot of difference between men and women in general regarding emotions and sex.
1. Do men want/need emotions with sex?
Yes, I do and I waited so that I DID have them before becoming sexually intimate....at least as far as intercourse was concerned. Sure, I love sex but I wasn't willing to go out and use someone to get it. I guess I missed out on the "cad gene."
2. Is it something an older man needs but younger doesn't?
Not for me....I've always needed the emotions to be present. I never wanted sex, just for sex's sake. I could never have had sex with a woman, who was probably expecting more, and never call her again. I have sisters so I can imagine how that must feel. How I would feel!
I think there ARE guys who are only interested in "scoring" no matter how much or little they actually like the woman, in other words..."any vagina will do". But I think most people, women AND men, want the whole package and are willing to wait for it. I wanted my sexual experience to mean more than that, personally.
Edited 5/4/2004 2:32 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
just my observation.
honey
Good point and so true. However, one of the reason I believe that so many women (an young men) that are prostitutes are able to make money as prostitutes is because it is illegal. If you had legal brothels, it would be a business that was protected by law; it would be safer for both parties (both medically and legally). Drugs have the same problem, because it is illegal, people that are desperate etc. tend to sell drugs. Many of the teens that are currently selling their bodies would no longer be able to because most people would rather visit a clean, safe establishment rather than visiting a protitute that may have AIDS, herpes etc. Also, police efforts could be focused strictly on juvenile prostitution rather than adult prostitution.
There are desperate people that work in slaughter houses, but we don't make it illegal because they are desperate. I think the reason that prostitution is illegal is probably more of an property rights issue (who wants a brothel next door to a daycare)and a moral question. There have to be a lot of things that need be legally worked out. However, I think the morality argument that most use for illegal prostitution (I realize that's not your argument) is silly. The property rights argument is a pretty good one, but you could work that out if you had small towns that decided that they wanted to have a legal prostituion industry (as in Nevada).
Good to talk to you.
Peace.
Scott.
I see your point that most men will
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