Men Moving During WOT

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Registered: 07-20-2006
Men Moving During WOT
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Thu, 07-20-2006 - 7:05pm
I'm new to WOT and I like it and feel like I have the hang of the movement. Question is...how much work is a MAN supposed to do during this position? Is it wrong to ask him not to move so I can feel good? I feel like it only is pleasurable when I move and he's still. Is this weird or is this common? What do you all do?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 7:17pm

It's up to the couple but my DH is usually still. Every so often he will thrust if I stop but not very often. He will stay completely still if I ask him to, though.

Your guy should understand that this position is, for the most part, about YOUR pleasure and do whatever works for you. Hey, you can always "repay" his consideration right after. LOL!

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Registered: 06-07-2006
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 7:18pm
I don't know if this is uncommon, both feels good to me (him moving and him not moving). When I don't want him to move, I usually say to him "Hey, no fair. This is my show." We usually smile and he knows what he has to do.
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Registered: 01-07-2005
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 9:25pm

He did all the movements with my first couple of WOT experiences (sitting position on couch) and let me tell you . . . well, G-spot O says it all!!!!

I don't know exactly what/how he does it but he doesn't thrust - based upon what I feel I'd say he's spinning it around in circles (ya know, the action when you hold up your index finger and do "whoppee" - that's what it feels like).

Thanks to IV, I now know how to move in WOT and he loves it when I do all the moving, however, I thoroughly enjoy his circle motion!

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 12:16am

Is it wrong to ask him to stay still? It's NEVER wrong to ask for anything you want him to do. Doesn't he ask you to do things, or not do things?

Most men don't move much, but everyone is different. If you'd rather he stay still, then tell him that. He might thing he's helping, or that you're loving it. He can't know what you're thinking.....you have to tell him.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Sat, 07-22-2006 - 4:42am
LOL unless hips are moving in circles, his penis isnt moving that way.