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| Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:17pm |
You're in your late twenties/early thirties and have started dating a woman and
| Mon, 11-05-2007 - 5:17pm |
You're in your late twenties/early thirties and have started dating a woman and
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Being the way I am, I would hug her and let her get it all out, and just be quiet and let her talk about it as she wants. I'm not boasting- the way I am, I would never have gotten that far anyway.
If this has happened to you, I hope he is sensitive to you.
IF I were a man, I would let her calm down, then I'd explain to her that it wouldn't matter if she had been with 50 other people before me, it's different with everyone, and no matter how much experience she has had, or hasn't had, each new partner is a new learning experience.
Thanks all for your input.
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Now that you're out of lurkdom, hopefully you'll find it gets easier and easier to post. As you can tell, the members here are more than happy to share their opinions and advice with you.
Hopefully if this was a situation that happened to you IRL, your guy had an understanding reaction.
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Considering a similar situation happened to me when I was in college I can say this...I was more concerned with her feelings and helping her not wig.
Beyond that, I should've been smart enough to know that this particular girl was a fruit loop. I wasn't. And because of that I got huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurt. (yes with like 12 u's)
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My knee jerk reaction would be to consider she had been abused or has other mental issues that need to be addressed.
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