Men who stay hard after sex?

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Registered: 07-14-2004
Men who stay hard after sex?
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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 2:46pm
Hi,

I’m new to the boards and I have a questions for the ladies and gentlemen. I’m a married 39 year old male with a unusual situation. Ever since I was young, I stay hard after sex. Sometimes it takes 15 minutes to go down. If I keep going, it doesn’t go down until after I cum again. I’m not complaining and my wife loves this little gift. My question is, are there other men out there like me? I haven’t discussed this with any of my male friends. My wife has brought it up to her female friends and it sounds like I’m in the minority.

Am I alone?

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 2:51pm
Well, this doesn't happen to my Dh all the time but it does happen. I would say if this is very regular for you(the majority of the time it happens) I would say it is unusual but not abnnormal.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:09pm
Do you take Viagra by any chance? My hubby took Viagra once and he stayed hard all day and into the night - after climaxing a few times. It was kinda scary and freaky.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:12pm
Tiana Rose,

No, I don't take Viagra. I would be afraid it would never go down if I did!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:14pm
Well, I don't know then. I'm sure there will be some men out there that may have had this experience. After climaxing, it's still hard? Can you keep going? Can you climax again?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:18pm
Yes, Yes, and Yes

Although not that I'm getting a little older, it takes a while to climax the second time, but it happens.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:32pm
Consider yourself a lucky man and your SO a lucky woman!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:47pm
Maybe 3-4 times a year, I seem to suffer symptoms of something called priapism. PAINFUL! Stay hard for hours and hours. I've even missed work because of it. Thank goodness they occur so rarely. At our age, its wise to look it up and learn more about it just for the heck of it. Oh, btw, no ejac once it starts, but the Mrs. NEVER complains! LOL!!!

Otherwise, staying hard and orgasming afterwards for a second or third time DOES happen, but I wouldn't say it happens to me very often. Male message boards that I've read indicate its not really that rare actually, but I kinda have to be careful saying something like that...know what I mean? ;)

 

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:50pm
Yes, my husband, 49

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 4:06pm
Do you have, er, an unmarried brother? j/k
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 5:05pm
"Gift" OR curse! Could be either, I suppose. I don't think you're that unusual though. My DH stays hard, particularly after oral, for a good 10 minutes but he's not interested in a repeat performance. He's way too sensitive.....and tired! LOL!

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