Men's monotonous big breast obession

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Registered: 05-05-2006
Men's monotonous big breast obession
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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 1:51pm

Why are all you men so hung up on huge breasts, aren't smaller breasts just as good??? Should ALL women get breast implants just to pleast the male population?????

And why is it that American males are turned off by a shapely, NOT FAT, but ROUND, butt while black men and Latin men are more appreciative of it???

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 2:06pm

Not all men are hung up on huge breasts, thankfully. Maybe they LOOK at them, because they're so unnatural, but even women will stare at them, too.

And any woman who has self respect and self esteem doesn't do ANYTHING to please the male population. Wouldn't it be a kick in the butt to get an enlargement, and then meet a man who doesn't LIKE humungous breasts? (and there are plenty of them!)

As for Round behinds, it's a cultural thing......because black and latino women tend to have larger butts, and the men of that race are used to seeing that.

You are what you are....changing your body wouldn't make you a different person. If you have self confidence in what you are and what you look like, THAT is what will attract a man. You have to love yourself before anyone else will love you!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 2:07pm

And since when


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Registered: 12-22-2005
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 2:20pm

Men Look at them because they are so unnatural!!! Really!!! I could argue the same about small breasted women. That they are not feminine or womanly and thus UNNATURAL

I disagree completely. I am a very natural 38D. I have never had implants or any other cosmetic surgery. Nor would i say that large breast are unnatural.I think maybe that women perceive men as being obsessed with larger breast because the media is.

Of course morbid obesity, genetics and other factor contribute to breast size. However i think it is a bit unfair hate on women because you are unhappy with your own breast size.

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 2:43pm

To: irulane

hmm... someone took the initial post it personally... don't take it personally girl, besides i don' thtink the poster was HATING on women w/ large breasts... i think she was more hating on MEN who obsess with these physical traits.

I know it bothers me when my bf points at Jenna Jamerson's boobs and goes "Look at them, just look at them, they look sooooo goood and natural". Even though we both know they are not natural, just a reall good boob job.

I'm 36b and I am disatissfied w/ my breasts, because I know my bf enjoys larger breasts.

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Registered: 05-05-2006
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 2:49pm

That's what pisses me off about men, they can sit their and drool and gawk like little g-damned babies over ridiculously huge breasts, but go running to their mommies whenever we retaliate and tell them that we want men with more than 7 inches!!!

Why don't you broach the subject about huge penises to your jerky boyfriend and see how HE likes it!!! I GUARANTEE he will sulk about that for WEEKS, maybe MONTHS!!!!

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Registered: 12-22-2005
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 2:52pm
Yes a little personally.....But like i said. I think women percive that men are so obsessed with them because the media puts it out like they are. My BF like smaller but I am what i am ;-)
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Registered: 05-27-2005
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 3:27pm

lol
I actually did... i went online and started searching porn by googling in HUGE C....Ks
and then I made a few remarks throughout that week. He was so pissed off and just really hurt.

However, I realized how immature it was of me to do that. Instead I communicated to him how much it hurt my feelings when he was gawking over Jamerson's boobs.

Sure enough, i'm still insecure about my "boobies" (that's what he calls them)

I don't know, it's something that we need to work on internally, this kind of stuff shouldn't get to us...

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 3:30pm

but it's true though, majority of men enjoy women:
1. Big breasts (at LEAST a full B, depending on your size)
2. Small waste
3. Nice round butt
4. Cellulite Free
5. Nice and toned all throughout

How can you live up to those expectations!!! you know...

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 5:21pm

I think that you two are being a little unfair here. Like it or not but most people that have studied the subject all agree that males of the human species are attracted to healthy women of childbearing age. A german study showed that even small often overlooked details like smooth skin and symmetrical baby faces are gauged to be more attractive than "average" faces by *both* sexes. Yeah, it's all biology and survival of the species and yada yada yada, but how can you argue against nature? Generally speaking many younger women are "more attractive" and "healthier" and in better "childbearing" shape by biological standards. If that's generally what males are attracted to, then what can you do about it? Many men battle with their sex's version of an "ideal" image of an attractive and successful male.

And then you throw in the social aspects of the whole thing. Certainly in America there is an obsession with large breasts, platinum blonde hair, no body hair and sex. If Anna Nicole can become a celebrity then there is definitely something going on there.

Lets look at what you posted, yulkash'

>>1. Big breasts (at LEAST a full B, depending on your size)
Well, given that women are developing more "fully" than they ever have in the past, then I would hazard a guess that probably more than half the population has breasts a large 'B" or bigger. If that's how you define "big breasts" then you're complaining about the average. America loves big breasts too, and anyway, big breasts are like a billboard - if it's in your face you are going to notice it and read it even if you don't want to buy what it's advertising. Of course big breasts are going to get noticed. Even guys that notice them may not prefer big breasts or have ANY strong preference. They might just be drawn in by the "Wow!" factor.

>>2. Small waste
Yep. Nothing wrong with a small waist. What's to complain about there?

>>3. Nice round butt
Again, what's the problem? Women like a nice butt on men just as much. Who, man or woman, wants a lumpy fat butt if they have a choice?

>>4. Cellulite Free
That goes hand in hand with #3 to a point. Who wants cellulite if you can avoid it?

>>5. Nice and toned all throughout
And the problem with that is? Who in their right mind is going to go for the opposite if they have a simple choice?

No, no everyone is the ideal shape. Man or woman. But we have to make do with what we've got and take what the media portrays with a grain of salt. Even those that seem to have the full package are often not happy with what they've got and can't live up to the ideal - not when you compare them to the unrealistic media images. What people want and what they get are two different things and I think that the majority of men realise that and probably acknowledge it with a shrug of the shoulders. Most know and are realistic. Bottom line - if you are going to get wound up and full of spite (like some that have posted here) about men that oogle large breasts then you have been taken in by the unrealistic social and media images just as much as the men that are doing the oogling. There are plenty of people and happy couples that live and make do with real, ordinary, non-ideal bodies.

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Tue, 05-09-2006 - 6:33pm

Those are all valid points.
However, it is not appreciated when your significant other is "oogling" over a women who has those physical traits (i've described in my previous post) I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate it either if your husband/bf would be drooling over a woman w/ a smaller waist or rounder butt than you.

All i know it hurts my feelings knowing that my SO would drool over women who have larger breasts than me, or rounder butts. I think the initial poster was trying to emphesize that.

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