Men's monotonous big breast obession
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Men's monotonous big breast obession
| Tue, 05-09-2006 - 1:51pm |
Why are all you men so hung up on huge breasts, aren't smaller breasts just as good??? Should ALL women get breast implants just to pleast the male population?????
And why is it that American males are turned off by a shapely, NOT FAT, but ROUND, butt while black men and Latin men are more appreciative of it???

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Culture plays a huge role in all this. But big breasts, like big penises, may get a lot of initial attention but it doesn't mean that you want to take them home with you! People look at all kinds of BIG things.
My DH sure doesn't fall into the generalizations you mentioned.
Drooling and gawking shouldn't be allowed in your presence. LOL! That's just insensitive and stupid, IMO.
A man who has his partner with him, should think of her feelings before his own, in those situations. If he doesn't, then you should confront him about it.
OR you could start hooting and hollering over the next nicely-shaped set of buns that pass by you or the biggest bulge you can point out to him. Payback is a bitch but maybe he'll get the point.
You're dissatisfied with your perfectly adequate breasts because you know your b/f likes them bigger? How sad! Do you feel that all you are to your b/f is a pair of boobs, and boobs that aren't big enough for him? If he likes bigger breasts, then why is he with you? Have a couple of kids with him, and your breasts will be bigger, which he probably won't care about anyway!
It's very sad when a woman is dissatisfied with her own body because of her perception of what another person likes or wants.
It doesnt have any bearing on being a woman or feminine. That was the point i was making by stating that. The original poster said that men only look at women with larger breast because that are unnatural.
My point was that the same argument could be made against women with smaller breasts, that that is unnatural and not feminine. Of course i dont believe that but there are two side to every story. My whole point was this..........I think women perceive that men are obsessed with them because the media is.
Men can say the same thing about women.....Why are all women obsessed w/a mans bank account or social status? With his car or whatever?
Not all women are obsessed with these things. But the media/popular magazines portray us that way.
And if you want to get really technical about it i suggest you read some books on human attraction and the chemistry/culture behind what was considered healthy and desired for child bearing. I am not saying its right i am just saying it is.
Honey...I Can live up to those but i can live up to my own and that all i intend on every doing. I am not what popular culture calls attractive. I have curves 5'8 and 165 and a roll or 2. A butt like jennifer lopez guys have always liked but now its more publicly acceptable.
I can only be myself and love the way my GOD made me. If i live up to those expectations then i am happy.
"Since when does breast size have any bearing on femininity or being "womanly"?"
To me it does. I know not everyone feels the same way but I'm a small person, very petite and my face looks very young. I babysat for a 10 yr old who thought I didn't look any older than 10 yrs old myself until I pointed out to her that 10 yr olds do not have breasts the size that I do and she blushed and admitted I was right lol. To me, my breasts are the only obvious feature on me that says "I am a woman, not a girl!" That has nothing to do with what any men think, it has to do with how *I* feel about my own body and what makes ME feel feminine and womanly, not what anyone else (male OR female) thinks makes me such. I'm sorry but just because you don't think breasts have anything to do with that doesn't mean other woman feel the same way about their own bodies or that they are wrong for thinking it.
We all have parts of our bodies that we believe are our best assets, the parts of our bodies that shout "this is the sexiest, most womanly part of me"... to me, it's simply my breasts. To my Grandmother, it was her legs. My mom I'm not sure about, maybe her arms or her stomach. Anyways, my mom injured her leg when she was a teen and was left with a horrible scar across it... my grandmother told her that if she wanted to, they could look into surgery to make the scar look less obvious but my mom didn't care. To my grandmother, a scar that large on her legs, the part of her body that she felt was what shouted "I am a woman and this is my sexiest part", would be tragic. Just as I believe *for me* small breasts would be tragic. If other woman are happy with their small breasts, good for them! But just like my grandmother would hate if she had a horrible scar on her leg, I would hate it if I had small breasts.
In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with that so long as it's something you feel on your own accord, not because of what someone else thinks. I'm not talking in defence of the original poster because clearly she has issues with the way men view her body, I'm just speaking in general.
To the OP: if you honestly think that all men are the way you describe them then it's your own fault for dating the wrong men.
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