Men's monotonous big breast obession

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Registered: 05-05-2006
Men's monotonous big breast obession
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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 1:51pm

Why are all you men so hung up on huge breasts, aren't smaller breasts just as good??? Should ALL women get breast implants just to pleast the male population?????

And why is it that American males are turned off by a shapely, NOT FAT, but ROUND, butt while black men and Latin men are more appreciative of it???

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 9:27am

That's what the "majority" of men want? Well, I guess the "majority" of women need to just kill themselves.....because they're NOT that!

I think that's what many women WANT to look like because of the media, and because of insecurity that they bring on themselves.

What the majority of men like and want is a woman who is self assured, and likes herself just as she is! (and if she doesn't like herself, then it's HER problem, not some mans problem!)

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 9:43am

I think the big problem is that many people don't understand the difference between "looking" and "wanting".

Any normal red blooded man (or woman) who isn't blind is going to LOOK at the Pamela Andersons and the J Los.....because those women are there to be LOOKED at....that's how they make their living. The same goes for any ordinary woman who goes out and pays thousands of dollars to mutilate their body, and become a 42DD on a size two body. They want men to LOOK!!! Too bad they don't realize that the majority of men who look are thinking "WHAT is that"?

I can LOOK at George Clooney, and say....."Wow, he's so good looking!" Do I WANT George Clooney? Nah, I don't want to compete with his pig. What I WANT is my 71 year old SO, with his pot belly, receding hairline and wrinkles!

Of course, if you're dealing with an immature moron who drools and ogles.....then I'd have to say the problem is yours for putting up with it! There's always the door!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 9:58am

Your generalizations don't make a lot of sense, each individual is going to have their own tastes.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2006
Wed, 05-10-2006 - 7:38pm
I personally do NOT like breast implants. A woman doesn't have to have huge breasts. I don't find overly large breasts appealing at all. A friend who I was involved with did have nice natural C cups breasts with her chest size 42. She is a very attractive woman in every way however. She has very nice, beautiful eyes and a very nice body in general, plus a very nice personality and she always smells really good and I would tell her all this. She always talks about being high maintenance and I told her that she always looks really good.
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Registered: 03-30-2000
Thu, 05-11-2006 - 1:11pm

Thanks, I like to see women proportioned well; a skinny woman with a big chest/rear, or vice versa, just looks *wrong* to me. And don't get me started on implants aka Barbie-boobs (oversized, too firm and full of plastic...).

I might notice a top-heavy lady only because she looks odd to me, doesn't mean I find her attractive.

As far as black/latina rears, it's upbringing I suppose; again, out of proportion to what my expectations are.

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