Men's Underwear

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Registered: 04-27-2005
Men's Underwear
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Sun, 07-24-2005 - 12:12am
I was wondering if anyone has recommendations on brands/styles of underwear for men. My wife really enjoys it when I wear sexy underwear. In response, I occasionally mix in a bikini-brief with my boxer-briefs, especially on date nights, to which she responds favorably. Unfortunately, the bikini style tends to make me look particularly under-endowed. I am a bit above normal size while flaccid, but when I wear bikini-style underwear, my penis tends to point straight out. For the individuals on this board who haven’t experienced the locker room or seen the difference between large and small flaccid men, big penises tend to hang straight down, while shorter penises tend to point straight out. Normally, I hang down, but smaller underwear tends to make me point straight forward. I want to please my wife with the bikini-briefs, but still look and feel masculine. If anyone has thoughts on how to achieve both goals, I would appreciate it. Thanks!

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 07-24-2005 - 1:01am

The answers simple. Wear what you feel most comfortable and confident in. The boxers it is.

I also think that you are worrying too much about what the briefs look like on you. I assume that your bedroom bears little resemblance to a locker room so you shouldn't have to worry about other guys making fun of your stickie-outie teenie weenie penie (sorry, couldn't resist).

Hopefully by the time you get down to briefs in these situations you would be on the way to semi-erect anyway....so... Good God, man! Pull it together! ;-)

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 07-24-2005 - 9:44am
Your wife already knows what you have but you can always get yourself a little worked up before your wife sees you in the bikinis.

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Registered: 05-01-2003
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 10:37am
To be absolutely honest, men without underwear are the sexiest! Elaine
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Registered: 11-22-2004
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 11:45am
I agree. Other than in a business suit, my man never ever wears underwear. Just his habit, and I like it the best. The only issue is that if he gets aroused it's quite obvious, but this is also true with boxers. Basically it's fun to know that in .1 seconds I can have his penis out.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 2:35pm

My DH likes tighty whities under his suits but wears boxers or the new boxer-brief for bed and casual clothes. His penis hangs down in his shorts.

I just can't get excited by bikinis on men though.

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Registered: 04-27-2005
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 6:50pm
I have to agree with you, Kat; I don't think men look sexy in bikinis either :) However, I aim to please and my DW seems to get an extra thrill when I wear them. I figure as long as I'm fit and trim, I am happy to comply with her taste in my underwear on the special occasions. In general, I really think the bikini-briefs are quite comfortable. The problem arises because I often wear them on our more special occasions when I know sex will follow, and my penis inevitably rides up to a pointing position over and again throughout the night. That means I regularly feel under-endowed on nights when I really want to look and feel as sexy as possible for my wife. I may not compare to the monster-men who pose in the underwear pictures, but at the same time, I don't look as if I skipped puberty. I just figured that someone must know of a smaller-cut underwear that wouldn’t cause my penis to point straight out like an undersized model. Any ideas? (And I don't consider stuffing to be a legitimate idea :)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 7:07pm
Well, like I said, my DH wears those bike short-look briefs, with the longer leg and we both think that they're very flattering.
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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 1:57pm

My favourite too. Light grey shows moisture real soon (compared with white or black).

He could also try a "posing pouch" (google for sex stores). Sort of puts everything in a bag. Very sexy.

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Registered: 06-20-2005
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 3:25pm

I am the same way. I wear briefs all day becuase I have extremely large thighs from my sports days and boxers seem to cause crushing of my boys between my crotch and leg. Therefore, I need something to keep them in place.

However, I do change into boxers for bed and try to wear them around my DW as much as possible. Boxers are obvioulsy better for bed because of the easy access.

As to your comment about the hanging down and pointing straight out I also agree. I think it is becuase boxers tend to rub me just enough throuhgout the day to keep me slightly aroused, whereas briefs do nothing for me at all.

Also, you said "big penises tend to hang straight down, while shorter penises tend to point straight out." I would have to disagree, I have seen research that says there is absolutely no link between the size of the falccid penis and the size of an erect one. I can attest to this as mine looks tiny when flaccid, but grows to a healthy 6 inches when aroused.

This study also pointed out this is one of the reasons behind the black man myth. For some reason, black men's penises remain long when flaccid, but grow very little when erect; whereas white penises seem to shrink/stretch much more. And since guys usually only see each other in locker rooms and bathrooms, white guys think if the flaccid monster grows the same as his, it must be huge, when eract. But studies have shown almost difference in erect penis among races. That is, except the french, whose balls were consistently absent.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 4:18pm
Your last comment cracked me up.....for many reasons! LOL!

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