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messy sex
| Tue, 04-17-2007 - 11:51pm |
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now and we have been having sex for much of it, but recently I started letting him cum in me. I am on birth control so do not worry. At first it brought us closer together but it has recently been making sex more messy than anyhting. It is very distracting to have to "mop up" after or run to the bathroom right away and you do not feel like cuddling or beign close afterwards. Does anyone have any suggestions that could help. I feel as though this is bringing us further apart.

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I have to agree with you amom. I've never had anything like that. I find condoms a lot messier and more inconvenient. I was a bit baffled by the OP. But I guess everyone's different.
Personally, I don't see what the big deal is. I shouldn't think it takes so long to clean up that you're gone for ages. I keep baby wipes by the bed, and we just do a quick wipe after sex, and that's that. No one has to leave the room straight away or anything. If we've had sex before getting up for the day, we'll just hop in the shower. If we're in the kitchen, napkins or paper towels are always on hand. If we're in the living room, there's usually a roll of loo paper in there anyway.
Nothing messy or gross about it. It's a part of life.
It's funny how different people think different ways.
I agree with you Greg, I would be offended if my sexual fluids were thought of as *gross* also and I know Dh wouldn't be to
Very true.
It always helps to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
As a male I also agree with greg.I too find it offended when you say and think that a man's sexual fliud is gross and sex is messy.I thought that it's suppose to be that way when a man and woman comes together to have sex.Especially if the woman are letting the man cum inside of her.
I have a question for you and the other girl who says the same as you:
What if you and your boyfriends or husbands were doing it to get you 2 pregnant.Would you 2 feel the same way about it as you 2 feel now?
What if your boyfriend thought and felt the same way about your sexual fliuds and you knew about it.What would you 2 think and How would you feel?
Sorry you must have misread what I posted.I am NOT the one who has a problem with it.I think you need to read post 1 her and another girl is the ones who is saying how messy and gross it was not me.
Well how would you feel if your boyfriend didn't like giving you head because he thought going down there and having your juices on his tongue and face was gross?
You just have to be aware of the things you say sometimes. That's all they were trying to say. People did give you suggestions as to what they do. But someone was offended at what you said when you offered a personal opinion. So they offered theirs.
End of.
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