messy sex

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Registered: 04-17-2007
messy sex
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Tue, 04-17-2007 - 11:51pm
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now and we have been having sex for much of it, but recently I started letting him cum in me. I am on birth control so do not worry. At first it brought us closer together but it has recently been making sex more messy than anyhting. It is very distracting to have to "mop up" after or run to the bathroom right away and you do not feel like cuddling or beign close afterwards. Does anyone have any suggestions that could help. I feel as though this is bringing us further apart.
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Registered: 03-18-2007
In reply to: sweetht42
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 9:46pm

sweetht42: "Yeah I think it happens to a lot of people just no one talks about it because its pretty gross...it sucks because on one end its nice to have him cum in me and on the other it's just way to messy. Mabye I'll just have to save it for special occasions."

I don't think it's gross. I love it when a man cums inside of me. What? does your bf produce gallons of it? ;)

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: sweetht42
Wed, 04-18-2007 - 10:22pm
Great point about the female ejaculation Tish. That produces way more fluid than any male ejaculation I have ever seen.


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Registered: 01-14-2005
In reply to: sweetht42
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 11:43am

great reply

DW and I don't car or who sleeps in the "wet spot". I think cum is natural, DW will give me a BJ and hold it in her mouth and then let it drip out on her brests and loves to watch/feel me licking it off. DW will give me a HJ and the lick it off my penis like an icecream cone. She can produce a lot of fluid and coupled with my cum from IC we both enjoy me giving her oral.

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Registered: 04-17-2007
In reply to: sweetht42
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 11:59am
Its not just me, he thinks its unpleasant also. He hates when it gets on him any place other than his penis. Thanks for the advice, it sounds like a good idea
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Registered: 04-17-2007
In reply to: sweetht42
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 12:00pm
Thank you
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Registered: 04-17-2007
In reply to: sweetht42
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 12:02pm
Thank you, and I accept your apology.
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Registered: 09-19-2006
In reply to: sweetht42
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 8:50pm
I'm sure that you've probably figured out a solution for you, but I find what works the best is to have some of those Always feminine wipes on hand. They really help with the clean feeling...plus they have a feminine feel but not the extra perfumes...oh, and we have a special towel that we play on...
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Registered: 06-25-2004
In reply to: sweetht42
Thu, 04-19-2007 - 9:12pm
You are very welcome.Like I said I didn't mean to offend you in any kind of way on what I said.Any time I can be of any help just call on me.I'm not gonna say that I know everything,but I will help with what I can and that I don't know I can try to find the answer for you or direct you to the person or place where the answer might be.
Like I said you are very welcome and take good care.
Howie_t
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Registered: 02-21-2007
In reply to: sweetht42
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 6:40pm

I am not new to the board but it is a long while since i have talked on it.

Help me to understand why men would find it offensive in how women feel about them coming in them when they find it a not good feeling-I am struggling for words here. What is the feeling you get emotional and nonsexual about how women have a discomforting feeling about a mans liquid coming in them. I realize it is the same that gets a woman pregnant.. But the meaning behind it not result in pregnancy when the desire is not to get pregnat appears to have a different meaning -why---....?????

Judith

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Registered: 04-17-2007
In reply to: sweetht42
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 8:53pm
SORRY NO HELP HERE....I LOVE MESSY SEX, EVERYTHING ABOUT IT. NOTHING SEEMS TO GROOS ME OUT TO MUCH.