"monthly cylce" and bf problems
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"monthly cylce" and bf problems
| Thu, 12-08-2005 - 11:51am |
hi, when i get my monthly cycle, my bf thinks
that is should initiate and orally satisfy him
1 or 2 x during the week that i have my period.
He says that God made women to have periods
and MEN SHOULD NOT SUFFER CUZ OF THIS.
Maybe his attitude on this bothers me more than
anything, but i have never had a bf in the past
who had this kind of attitude...some of my
past bf's could wait till my period is over, but
this now bf makes a big to do about it.
We both decided NOT to have regular sex during
this time of the month, but he expects me
to orally gratify him every time i get my
period.
What do other couples do when the gal gets
her monthly????
any advice would be great!!!
thanks!

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My advice to your boyfriend:
1) Close mouth
2) Hold penis in hand
3) Keep mouth closed
4) Vigorously move hand up and down while holding penis
5) Keep mouth closed
6) Repeat as necessary for remainder of week
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I agree with the others. It's not your "duty" to do ANYTHING for him. If he can't handle a week of "suffering" he's got two hands!
YOu might inform him that if he didn't have an "attitude" he might get more of lots of things. Does he feel the same "duty" towards you? Doubtful!
“He says that God made women to have periods
and MEN SHOULD NOT SUFFER CUZ OF THIS.”
If my boyfriend ever said that too me during my period I would probably smack him.
Sometimes I go down on my bf during that week, but he always tries to stop me and says” Honey, your in pain you don’t have to do this!” I then have to explain to him it’s ok I think I can handle it.
But, I kind of like that week because he cooks, cleans and waits on me hand and foot.. Also I get some great back massages!
You should really talk to your boyfriend explain that you do not feel sexy or sexual during that time, heck I know I don’t. I hope he understands for your sake. Good luck!
Also, tell him many men go without sex or oral and they are not “suffering”.. you know, he can always use his hand!
He's being pretty selfish about it, demanding that you do something for him. His attitude sucks. But having said that I can see his point of view. I often wish that my partner would do more for me during that week - but then I understand why she doesn't feel like it too and that's fair enough for me. Sometimes she will give me a BJ, and other times I can masturbate and cum over her breasts or stomach, but mostly it's just me and Mrs. Palmer & her five daughters ;-)
I can't imagine that if you picked a week out of the month that he'd be thrilled at having to give YOU oral sex when you wanted it and not get anything in return...
Edited 12/8/2005 4:52 pm ET by westridge2001
2. Get him nice and worked up
3. Right before he's ready to blow, punch him in the nads.
4. Tell him it's a side affect of PMS.
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